Yeah, that ST parent HB is insane. If everybody followed her advice, there would actually be a need for more programs, as there would not be enough room even with all the programs they have now. If a kid is depressed and wants to kill himself, chances are sooner or later, he/she will find a way. They should try to find the reason/reasons for the depresion and try to have him feel better rather than putting him in a situation where he will be even more depressed.And of course, drug use, depending on what kind of drugs, can be normal. And if it isn't, a program is most definitely not the route to go.