CCM, I appreciate your support. I'm sorry you're receiving criticism for defending me.
And to Joyce and Hanzoman, I suppose in here, I should have been much more specific. I have not completed this website, but I will clearly outline my intentions and my objectives when I have the time. I plan on clearly drawing out a suitable set of guidelines for admittance to this "network" as I'm calling it. The plan is to control as much as I have the power to do. I'd love to hear everyones views on what could make the service more appropriate, and safer. The objective is to keep good schools (if they exist) in front of parents eyes.
No one seems to want to consider that if I don't find the type of schools that fit my criteria, I will simply give up on this because my heart is in the right place. I'm not going to falter with my ultimate goal simply because such and such school is going to pay me for it. It's about making a difference, not a financial opportunity. I choose the schools, they don't choose me.
I can scream at these parents all day long till I'm blue in the face that WWASP isn't good for their children, are they taking my word for it? I don't know because I don't see where they go after that. My proactive approach of trying to provide parents with options besides Aspen and WWASP schools when given such an opportunity, that's all I can think of doing. I don't know if anyone has done any searching lately but I'd guess that these two corporations own at least 60 percent of the first 100 search terms for "teen help" in almost every major search engine. I don't even want to get into how hard it has been to simply find schools not affiliated with these corporations. I am also using all of your experience from what has been posted here, to guide me in my search for these "better schools".
As Joyce pointed out, just because I've only said so much, it doesn't mean I don't have more in mind for the service. I'd say the major difference between what I'm offering and current "referral groups" is the chance to appropriately remove schools should any become involved in lawsuits, be accused of abuse, found not to be worthy of treating the students properly, under nourishment, being not properly accredited or licensed, not doing background checks... please don't consider this complete as I'd be nieve to consider this short list acceptable. I'm not concerned about earning money from this. I'm concerned that kids are going to WWASP and Aspen schools no matter how loud you're yelling here at fornits and elsewhere. I'm sorry I can't provide a complete list at this time of everything I intend to filter or regulate through this. It would be irresponsible of me to think that I can obtain perfection here. I don't think any of us think that's possible. What I am trying to do is my best to point parents in a direction other than the ones being offered. I then intend on tracking each families' progress as well as trying to perform surveys of some kind to determine things like: their childs progress, their idea of the facility before and after placement to make sure "what you see is what you get", their childs opinion of the treatment received and of the professionalism of their staff and teachers. I hope that this at least quells some of the interest many of you have in my project. I will do my best to make the guidelines and regulation requirements publicly viewable on the website but I will not be posting that information to this thread. I'm sure someone will do so regardless as that's generally the way things go around here.
This is my last post here at fornits, I've grown tired of the personal attacks from anonymous people, ad hominem (learned this from cassandra, though I may be guilty of this as well cause I don't understand it completely), and generally just being poked and prodded into defense mode all the time. I kept thinking it would somehow stop, but it seems I've spent so much time in these massive debates about my character, my intentions, my this my that. Go whine to someone else. I'm just tired of it all. I'm going to focus on what I originally intended to do, (thanks for the inspiring words CCMgirl) I'm not hiding from anyone, if you need to ask me something I'd be happy to discuss it more with you through email. I'm deleting my account so if you need to reach me please do so through antiwwasp.com.
Keep up the good work around here, you're all doing a great job.