Don't worry about it, I'm not - even I don't know what's best for my kids, so I'm sure no one else does!
i don't understand this about me and not doing my best for them though, i have repeatedly said here and at ST I am not against programs - I am against child abuse though no matter where it comes from, programs, in the home, at school wherever ...... I just CHOOSE not to send my kids away because I don't think thats the right thing for them, no matter how tempting it may get at times ! All of our own personal situations are different, what may do one kid the world of good can destroy another for life, as we've seen on both forums, in my case I feel it is better to work through this as a family
That's what it's about right? Choice? For both kids and parents alike?