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« Reply #45 on: December 20, 2006, 12:14:25 PM »
Yes, you are right.  They tell another place is better for you.  Josh, however; told me, its when you are not moving up fast enough in the levels and they dont want to deal with you anymore.
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Re: Placement
« Reply #46 on: December 20, 2006, 12:48:07 PM »
good luck with everything.
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in time
« Reply #47 on: December 20, 2006, 12:51:26 PM »
He has been adjusting very well so far.  He may go live with his dad though.  He wants to get to know his dad better.  At 14 he may need his dad more on a daily basis then his mom.    Its totally his choice.
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« Reply #48 on: December 20, 2006, 04:01:25 PM »
Josh may go live with his dad????
Didn't you post earlier that his step mom was verbally abusive, and that this verbal abuse escalated into physical abuse?

Is this step mother still in the picture?
If so: WHY would you allow this boy to be around her?
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« Reply #49 on: December 20, 2006, 04:03:32 PM »
Would still like to know:

WHO made the decision for this boy to go into the program at Midwest in the first place?  Was his father involved in this decision? Or did you, the mom, make this decision independently?
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Re: in time
« Reply #50 on: December 20, 2006, 04:28:46 PM »
Quote from: ""jnzmom""
He has been adjusting very well so far.  He may go live with his dad though.  He wants to get to know his dad better.  At 14 he may need his dad more on a daily basis then his mom.    Its totally his choice.


He's only 14? How young was he when he went into a program?

Jesus Christ...  :(

PLEASE tell me you've gotten a therapist and nudge-nudge wink-winked to get an evaluation or something done, JNZ.
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« Reply #51 on: December 20, 2006, 04:29:30 PM »
His father divorced his step-mom 2 years ago.  So... no she is not in the picture anymore.  I would not let him be around her if she was.    2nd question:  His father and I made a joint decision.  We have joint legal custody.
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« Reply #52 on: December 20, 2006, 07:55:36 PM »
Thanks for the info TSW
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Re: in time
« Reply #53 on: December 20, 2006, 07:58:13 PM »
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He's only 14? How young was he when he went into a program?

Jesus Christ...  :(


Well... he is 14.....   So... minus 8 mths... less then a year he would have been 13.
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« Reply #54 on: December 20, 2006, 08:08:43 PM »
Thats really young to be locked up in a program. Wow.

He's going to need your support, big time, but I'm sure you already know this.
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TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #55 on: December 20, 2006, 09:41:47 PM »
at 3 springs we had kids as young as 11
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« Reply #56 on: December 20, 2006, 10:28:54 PM »
Jesus fuck it only gets worse.

Jnzmom, what did the other parents say when you contacted them? Will any of them be pulling their kids? Are any of them coming to Fornits? You're in a rather unique position right now so please pardon me if I ask you to use it.
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« Reply #57 on: December 20, 2006, 11:07:21 PM »
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Jesus fuck it only gets worse.

Jnzmom, what did the other parents say when you contacted them? Will any of them be pulling their kids? Are any of them coming to Fornits? You're in a rather unique position right now so please pardon me if I ask you to use it.


I would suggest sending them to the Isaccorp site. Not that this place is bad, but the information on the Isaccorp site is much more organized and easier to read through
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« Reply #58 on: December 21, 2006, 12:16:08 AM »
Well, they're for different things. ISAC is an information repository, Fornits is a forum.

Send them to ISAC, and when they're freaked out enough, send them here.
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« Reply #59 on: December 21, 2006, 03:44:08 AM »
Hi
How was it that you Came across midwest academy?
What was it that made you decide on it as a place for your son?
Did you get to any of the seminars?
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