Teen son loves pornographic websites.

[Anonymous]

My precious 14 year-old son has been viewing content that is not suitable for his age range. He loves pornographic websites. I spoke to the school psycologist who said he thinks my son views such content because he is covering up a deeper issue or deeper issues. He told me to lok into sending him to a Wilderness Program. He personally reccemended Second Nature. Any thoughts on this program or my situation with my son?

[Anonymous]

I have some good links for free access porn for you.

[psy]

My precious 14 year-old son has been viewing content that is not suitable for his age range. He loves pornographic websites. I spoke to the school psycologist who said he thinks my son views such content because he is covering up a deeper issue or deeper issues. He told me to lok into sending him to a Wilderness Program. He personally reccemended Second Nature. Any thoughts on this program or my situation with my son?

Um.  I suspect you are a troll.  But just in case you are actually serious, and since i have some free time here, i might as well respond.

Your kid is NORMAL.  When people are that age and certain things about their bodies start to change, and the hormones start to do wacky things, they get interested in members of (usually) the opposite sex.  Hmm.  These things are normally taught in sex-ed classes.

Jeez when i was that age 95 - 97% of people (not just boys) looked at porn.  Only a few of them get caught, however.  I don't know why a school counselor would recommend something like that and have a hard time believing it.  If i've fed a troll.  oh well.

Listen.  I don't have the time to explain why not here, just to a quick search on fornits about the program in question, look at the isaccorp.org website at the warning signs, visit cafety, and do a little research.  I don't think you want to send your kid there.  I won't even bother telling you why, go find out on your own.

Do NOT go to strugglingteens.com or natsap's website for advice.  They are run by former program owners with a definite agenda.  Do not trust any educational consulting firm at all.  If you really feel like your kid has a problem, let a PSYCHOLOGIST make the decision as to whether or not it is an issue.  A school councelor is not qualified to make such recommendations, and i would question the ethical standards of anybody who would.

Let your child speak to a psychologist about this.  Don't talk to the psychologist for him, he may not feel comfortable telling you everything.  During that time of development, many children feel uncomfortable or somehow ashaimed of their bodies and changes.  Sending him to a wilderness program would solve nothing and i guarantee you would regret it.

Listen.  If you're really serious about wanting to send your kid to a Program.  E-mail or PM me and we can exchange phone numbers after which i can explain in detail (based on my own experiences and those i know personally) exactly why you do not want to send your kid to a program.  Don't take my word for it, there are others here who can give you advice as well.  There are many alternatives to programs.

[Anonymous]

Um. I suspect you are a troll.

Your suspicion is correct.

3/10

[Anonymous]

On the occasions you find Jonny jerking it to Pedo porn is when I want you to look things over a bit.

Ah, but in this case, the girls would be a bit older than he is.

[Anonymous]

why do you even respond to these??
fornits has become an echo chamber for fictional characters to interact with other fictional characters by people who love to hear themselves speak.

[psy]

why do you even respond to these??
fornits has become an echo chamber for fictional characters to interact with other fictional characters by people who love to hear themselves speak.

Because reality is often stranger than fiction.  Yes the person who first started this thread is probably a troll, but i grew up in a fundamentalist Christian background where Pornography is seen as quite literally, as bad as or worse than heroin.  I know people who could have truthfully typed such a first post.  There are a lot of Fundy types out there who some of us might think of as a bit wacky (programs and ed-cons love to prey on their naiveté), but I guarantee that such people care about their kids as a matter of dogma.  As such, when talked to like rational human beings, they are responsive to input.

Listen.  I know it's a 90% probability the person is a troll...   Ok maybe a little higher than that.  But if there's even a 1% chance that the person is actually a parent i think it's worth taking the time to respond.  If nothing else, A dialogue, even with a fictional charachter, could serve to provide insight to others, perhaps parents, who might stuble on fornits.  I'd hate to think a parent sent his/her kid to program because we didn't take them seriously.

[ZenAgent]

Unbelievable...The amount of porn available to kids on the internet, delivered to young and curious eyes with a keystroke.  

Shit.  When I was a kid, I had to go through the hassle of digging through my dad's sock drawer to find a couple of Playboys from the 70's with airbrushed soft-lens pics of bovine bunnies.

Screamin' Jay Christ, I'm jealous as hell of the kids today.  And you worry about his interest in procreating?  Parents like you're (pretending) to be produce adults like the Right Twisted Reverend Haggard.

Tell "precious" to go to my favorite site: WWW.Mudwrestlingbisexualmidgetpornomadness.org

Maybe you should, too.  It might be a bigger kick than trolling on here, clownpuss.

[Covergaard]

I will try to reply as if this thread was not started by a troll.

Yes, it is normal for children down to about 12 to watch porn on the internet. Just remember to tell them that what they are seeing is not naturally. It is an act like a film, they watch on the telly. Don't discipline them but tell them that poor women and men are being exploited just for the good of entertainment.

Danish youngster has to be 15 years of age to practice sex and 16 years of age to buy alcohol legally.

They see pictures and drawings of genitals during the mandatory education in our public school when they are about 13 or 14, so it can not come as a surprise for them, when they see it live one day.

If we don't make a drama out of everything, they would not try and hide these activities from us.

[Anonymous]

you know why trolls love fornits?
seek answer above,

[MightyAardvark]

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[Anonymous]

I think that his obsesssion with porn will wear off. If you think back to when you were 14......if you had the internet available to you, you'd probably check it out too.

Besides, it's always the same old shit. Woman giving the guy a blow job, then it moves into plain old sex, then he hits that ass, then he cums on her back, the end. I mean how many times can somebody possibly watch that?

It's just a phase, stop being so uppity, maybe it's you who needs to watch a little, ehh?!!

[Covergaard]

If your child uses the information, he received by seeing porn on the internet for a ....... private.... purpose, it can benefit his health and prevent postate cancer.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mastrubating#Benefits

http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/links/ ... 319.x/abs/

So if you walk in on him while he is enjoying himself try to maintain a tedious level of speech and ignore his actions. Punishing him (I know that this kind of activities is outlaws in some states, but there is no reason to call the police station.) could endanger his health on long-term basis.

[Anonymous]

OH GOD NO A TEENAGER IS SEXUAL!!!

I bet he has pubes too!! Better call up those people to get him fixed and load him up fulla estrogen so he stops having "those feelings", and Dr. Kellog used to recommend back in the 1800s carbolic acid directly applied to the genitalia to numb them so he does not masturbate.

[Anonymous]

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