Ive been coming here for quite some time now, and I like to think I have made an effort to be fair with people when posting or at least remain open to their views. But this place has crossed the line for me and become no better than the program itself.
NOTE TO ALL: This is NOT a generalization. There are many people who are great to correspond with and are not Nazi's when it comes to others disagreeing with their posting. So anyone thinking about correcting me on a generalization, please dont.
Foremost, I think the program was terrible, I think it was sick and wrong and a dispicable situation that we were all subjected to. So dont think that because I sometimes agree that "letting go" or "getting over it" means that I dont support survivors or THE MOVMENT. However, I do believe that on a persoanl level we must all begin moving on at some point. We are are ultimately responsible for our own lives, and yes, even when things like the program are forced upon us, it is our responsibility to ourselves to heal and move on and make the remainder of our existence that much more worthwhile. Blaming is selfish and unproductive. Pursuing our tormentors is honorable and part of the process, but once they are caught, which I am confident they will be, alot of people are going to be dissapointed when they are still unhappy, and still have their own issues and demons to contend with. We cant rely on a vengeful attitude alone to help enrich and heal our lives. And this board is not the definantive answer to getting support. Anyone who places that expectation on it may end up in a worse postion than when they started.
That all being said, I am choosing to not post here any longer. I may be completely wrong in my opinion of how this place has changed, but I do know that it is unproductive and unhelpful to me personally. I find myself increasingly angered by what I read, so I would rather make the choice not to participate.