:sad: I just read the book Help at Any Cost. I wish I had this information when I was having problems with my daughter. I would NEVER have sent her to wilderness or the therapudic boarding school. I felt I had the best advice I could get from a psychiatrist and educational consultant. My gut feelings about the TBS made me take my daughter out after only five months. Thank goodness I did. She still has problems, but now we deal wtih them and we get along well. Don't resort to sending a child away. It cost us a fotune and did nothing to help.