When did adolesence become a pathology?
Short answer- when it became politically desirable and profitable. Children are a large demographic ripe for pathologizing and commodification.
***You will save yourself 30 grand & one day
look back on it all and feel smug about having been able to parent your kid all by yourself.***
Values have changed. There are no awards for parenting. People are rewarded for recognizing their ?weaknesses?, their 'incompetence' and seeking ?professional help?.
It took a few generations to steer the masses in that direction, but it has been a smashing success. It is hugely profitable to create a culture fraught with crises that requires paid intervention/treatment.
Baby is fed a ?formula? instead of human breast milk-followed by a crappy diet- which results in a plethora of medical problems.
Kid has a cold- given antibiotics, just in case.
Chronic ear infections & viruses- more antibiotics
Overuse of antibiotic- tubes in ears and treatment for overgrowth of Candida and IBS.
A few years of not having their physical or emotional needs met and ?problem behaviors? arise.
Kid is too active- give him kiddie cocaine.
Ritalin causes insomnia- add a sleep aid.
Kid not active enough (?depressed?)- add a SSRI- they claim to be able to dx depression in infants now- psych drugs from birth to the grave- extremely profitable.
Kid develops undesirable side effects- add another or two rx?s to the mix.
Kid doesn't respond to drugs and/or challenges authority- send them to a warehouse to have their behavior modified.
Gradually over the years, parents have been separated from inherent wisdom. It was replaced with the belief that they are incapable and must depend on ?professional? help for ever minor issue. They haven?t the skills to deal with the simplest problem because they were conditioned growing up, to focus all their attention on education and career, and leave the problems to the experts. They condition their own children the same way. Their teen children can?t perform simple functions like fry an egg or wash a load of laundry, forget managing money or balancing a check book. I call it "contributing to the disability of a minor". Why bother with the mundane chores of life, like cooking, cleaning, parenting, when you can pay someone else to do it?
Inherent parental wisdom was replaced with fear- fear of living, fear of dying, fear of adolescents. Zero tolerance replaced common sense.
With both parents working, many kids are raised from birth in institutions. Parents spend a couple of hours an evening with their kids, best case. Knowing nothing else, they distract, coddle/cater to, and entertain them all weekend to avoid any fuss. Having survived the weekend, they can?t wait to drop them off at daycare or school on Monday so they can get back to their relationships with adults. Seems perfectly normal that when the teen becomes a pain in the arse, that another institution is what?s needed. The commonly accepted thinking now is that a ?responsible? parent recognizes that their ?struggling teen? needs to be placed in a program.
Parents seem confused and apathetic. There are so many experts with conflicting opinions these days, they don?t know which one?s advice to follow. They allow rude, anti-social behavior, and avoid the ?No? word, for fear of causing their kid permanent psychological damage or being judged by their peers. They switch from method to method- no consistency. Kids know their parents haven?t a clue which results in confusion and a lack of trust. Having not spent much time with their kids, having never developed communication, they seem bewildered when they ?suddenly?- just out of the blue- have a ?struggling teen? on their hands.
I believe it was during the Industrial Revolution when the middle class was burgeoning that ?childhood professionals? came to be. Middle class families could afford homes with more than one bedroom. It was advised that children should be isolated in their own rooms and spent less time with the family unit, seen but not heard..., while working class kids were slaving in the factors making the middle/owning classes more wealthy. And of course, whatever the middle class does, the working class aspires to. It?s an experiment gone bad.
But parents have traveled so far down that road that they can?t find their way back
Welcome to The Machine?..
Moral compass...Who needs help?
http://fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?to ... =75#163147Interesting perspective-from religious persecution to psychiatric oppression
http://fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?to ... rt=0#65038While I think these authors swing a bit too far to the other side, I agree with many of their perceptions and opinions of 'how we got here'.
One Nation Under Therapy:
How the Helping Culture is Eroding Self-Reliance
by Christina Hoff Sommers and Sally Satel
St. Martin?s Press (April 1, 2005)
Americans have traditionally placed great value on self-reliance and fortitude. In recent decades, however, we have seen the rise of a therapeutic ethic that views Americans as emotionally underdeveloped, psychically frail, and requiring the ministrations of mental health professionals to cope with life's vicissitudes. Being "in touch with one's feelings" and freely expressing them have become paramount personal virtues. Today-with a book for every ailment, a counselor for every crisis, a lawsuit for every grievance, and a TV show for every conceivable problem-we are at risk of degrading our native ability to cope with life's challenges.
Drawing on established science and common sense, Christina Hoff Sommers and Dr. Sally Satel reveal how "therapism" and the burgeoning trauma industry have come to pervade our lives. Help is offered everywhere under the presumption that we need it: in children's classrooms, the workplace, churches, courtrooms, the media, the military. But with all the "help" comes a host of troubling consequences, including:
?The myth of stressed-out, homework-burdened, hypercompetitive, and depressed or suicidal schoolchildren in need of therapy and medication
?The loss of moral bearings in our approach to lying, crime, addiction, and other foibles and vices
?The unasked-for "grief counselors" who descend on bereaved families, schools, and communities following a tragedy, offering dubious advice while billing plenty of money
?The expansion of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder from an affliction of war veterans to nearly everyone who has experienced a setback
Intelligent, provocative, and wryly amusing, One Nation under Therapy demonstrates that "talking about" problems is no substitute for confronting them.
http://www.onenationundertherapy.com/Review of One Nation Under Therapy:
One Nation Under Therapy addresses the issue of pathologizing childhood, and among other things describes how middle-class, suburban parents are trying to INSULATE CHILDREN AGAINST FAILURE and against the NORMAL PROCESSES, e.g., grieving, sadness, etc., of life. The book addresses adhd and the push in some therapeutic circles to keep boys from behaving as boys do. Pathologizing childhood means to keep the child from expressing his/her natural curiosity, to discourage play and expect the child to focus inward upon their feelings, working from the assumption that all children suffer from a pathology or mental illness or bad parenting practices until they can run the gauntlet and prove otherwise.
Well, you got me going with that one ...