On 2006-06-09 07:55:00, Anonymous wrote:
"IT AIN'T SUPPOSE TO BE FUN!!!!!!!!!!
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Why?
which expert has proven that the only way kids can learn and "grow" is through abuse, adversity, deprivation? Adversity can certainly develop character, but can also harm when intentionally heaped on by another human.
It's been suggested by numerous people that more fun and laughter, positive regard, and doing away with deprivation would go a long way in genuinely helping 'angry' kids find some peace in a fucked up culture. Deprivation, forced marches through the desert, marching and sleeping in the open in sub-zero and 100+ temps, teaches nothing. Except the degree to which your parent will go to punish you, and how to ?act? to avoid further mistreatment.
Do they really have a choice but to demonstrate what is expected? Is that real ?growth? or acting?
How does deprivation and abuse cure depression?
Laughter trumps abuse/deprivation in terms of treating depression.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=& ... depressionI didn?t see any smiles or hear any laughter in the Brat Camp expose except when they were served decent food. I saw long, sad, painful faces on kids being force marched in adverse conditions.
Maybe unhappy/hopeless kids need a retreat from the irrational demands of their parents and society where they can play and laugh for a couple of months and learn "Cultural" survival skills for day-to-day living in an insane world.