On 2006-06-03 04:24:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2006-06-02 18:58:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Wow Carmel. You are just completely fucking out there!
Did you even understand the statement you responded too?
I'd expect a reply like yours to come from a psych patient. You clearly have a limited grasp of reality."
Cant even respond to that.Carmel you ARE out there.I tried for 10 minutes to find something meaningful,or real in your last post,but you make little sense.
If you found what I said to be insulting,I guess I am not sorry,just callin it as I see it"
You dont find deriding someones self-esteem or sense of respect for others as insulting? I would think thats pretty straight forward.
I find it amusing that people make such harsh and profund judgements of the character of others in these situations online....because what the hell does anyone really know, about you or me? Just like you telling me I have a limited grasp of reality.....do you honestly believe you have enough information about my character to make such a claim? I may argue the facts or the issue, but I make an effort to not reduce myself to just insulting someone or calling bullshit on their entire character when they dont agree with me.
Do you REALLY think I should be compared to a psychotic? Simply because you dont understand my rhetoric? I certainly dont think you are a horrible example of humanity simply because you disagree with me on an issue.
It frustrates me when people become selective about their perception. Sometimes they only want to see the good in things, but you cant truly understand issues unless you give the good and the bad equal footing. IN MY estimation, that IS reality....and it isnt possible to have a firm grasp on it of you dont have objectivity. Just like my reference to the American Idol show. Its a public display of innapropriate humiliation for entertainment value. But somehow, no one seems to think thats sending the wrong message. Or any of that reality TV crap...watching people tear each other apart through lies and cruelty simple so the public can have a weekly train wreck to watch. I agree that its not in the same circle with a sex offense....but if you want to be rabid about the exposure your child is getting in the big bad world, you have to look all the way across the board. Once you do, you might see that sheltering and hiding your kid from the ugliness of the world is simply an impossible task. Knowledge is power, without it your just plain old unprepared, because bad things do and will happen.
Id also like to point out that back in 1776, they may have shot you down for raping a child ,without due process...but where do you think Pa put his gun when he got home from regulating the pedophile? He stuck it in the corner by the front door or under the bed.....not in a child proof gun safe with the safety on. And Pa also made sure his kids new what a gun was, and most likely how to use it and how to respect it. If you dont teach them they wont learn, at least not until its too late. THAT is reality. You are allowed to understand the ugliness of the world those who live in it, why shouldnt your kid be allowed...how do you think YOU got where you are today?