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« Reply #120 on: May 03, 2006, 08:41:00 PM »
OMG!!! Make the scary man go away!

I swear, if I were you Anthony R. I would pay whatever money it took to make that picture go away!
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f you were never in a program, or a parent of a child in a program, then you have no business posting here.

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« Reply #121 on: May 03, 2006, 09:18:00 PM »
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On 2006-05-03 18:10:00, Three Springs Waygookin wrote:

"It is all a process of evolution. Sadly that evolutionary process of the TBS industry is at the expense of children, and hopefully society has enough sense to cull the TBS industry from the ranks and let it fall by the wayside of yet another idiotic idea.



Undoubtably the TBS system has helped some people, and without a doubt TBS has played a significant enough role on American society. The perspective I take on TBS is that far more have been harded in the process, and very little emphasis has been placed on the alternatives. Why the lack of emphasis on alternatives? Money talks and logic walks.

Insanity in individuals is something rare - but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.
--Friedrich Nietzsche

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Sorry but uh.... no the TBS indusry hasnt played a signifigant role. At all. Very, very few people (As a percentage of the population) even know they exist. Theyre a niche market for a reason - THEY DONT WORK, and theyre FUCKED UP!

And how the hell did a TBS help anyone? Coallation is not causation - what did a TBS do to 'help' anyone, TSW?
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #122 on: May 03, 2006, 09:34:00 PM »
Listen up all you fools fo` tha downlow fo' real. those of us who hizzle bizzle through tha teen industry mizzle factory knizzay it D-to-tha-izzont wizzork gangsta style. you know how you can read a book n study a subject but killa really understand until you live it? this is one of those situations, once youve lived through a bad program you know tizzle cant exist as they do today like old skool shit. shiznut them all tha fiznuck down, parents need ta do they job. whizzay tha fuck is wrizzong wit parents these days, tizzle be tha real question. werd to yer mutha.
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« Reply #123 on: May 03, 2006, 09:39:00 PM »
werd ta mah brotha three clockin' in tha waygookin n shiyat. he knows whats up. tha only peeps who dont knizzow whats up is tha parents shell'n over they benjies fo` some second rate wharehizouse fo` teens n' shit.
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« Reply #124 on: May 03, 2006, 09:43:00 PM »
Aspirin please?
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« Reply #125 on: May 03, 2006, 10:11:00 PM »
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Ok... there are no consentual programs. They cant work consentually. Do you not know what the definition of COERSION is?

Sorry to rile you up, Niles, but yes the word is ?consensual ? and yes there are programs that take kids without being escorted, they have rules and regulations, so you have to live by their rules, just like anyplace else.

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Your "spectrum" is contrived and full of shit.

Its because you don?t understand it, which is okay.  Instead of Wikipedia ?Spectrum?  Wikipedia ?Normal curve? or ?Distribution?.  I think that was your error, its not a color spectrum.  It applies to any sets of data, they may be normal or skewed, it isn?t full of crap because it applies to any set that has more than 2 data points, don?t take my word for it look it up.  Our data (that we are talking about today) set is Programs, RTC and TBS some call it a spectrum, sorry to confuse you.


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There is no such thing as a "14 month program with no fences" or wahtever, because:
 Actual therapy doesnt have a time stipulation, because therapy isnt a sentance or a punishment!


Wrong, my daughter attended one, but lets continue:

14 month program is a time estimate, if you take a cold formula and it says 12 hour relief do you expect the tolerance to be plus or minus 1 minute?  Or is it different for each person (I would chose the second one.)  My daughter was at the 14 month program for 16 months, some take longer others shorter.

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Actual therapy at a retreat with residential facilities, no coersion, and full open communication, is not a program. It doesnt apply to your spectrum
You can call it what you want, call it a school, no fences, you can leave anytime you want.  Again, you don?t understand spectrum, its not ?My? spectrum.

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If such places are good, they dont somehow justify programs
Not sure if we could call them good, but they help kids grow and keep them safe.  I am not trying to justify programs, just stating they work and help people.



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Your verbal chaff about statistics is all just nonsense
?  Hmmm, Okay

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Programs are way out in left field and most people dont use programs at all anyway.
Depends how you define the field.  If the field is defined as ?Residential programs?  then TBS?s are probably in the middle of the field.  Yes most people do not use programs because they don?t have a need, which is a good thing.  I think we both agree.

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Most people handle it themselves because they know how to parent, or use outpatient therapy, not coersive behavior modification.

Or better said, outpatient therapy is effective and they don?t need to look any further or use behavior mod.

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You cant redefine a program into something its not so you can win an argument


Come on, Nile ,I wish you would stop taking all of this so personal, its not about us winning or losing an argument.  Its about saving the kids !!  Why cant you see this?  Who cares who wins a stupid argument?  These kids need help and the parents out there need some help to make decisions for them.


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« Reply #126 on: May 03, 2006, 10:14:00 PM »
PT9K, ENGAGE!!
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« Reply #127 on: May 03, 2006, 10:23:00 PM »
ENTERING ACTIVE MODE (auth: lstephens)

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What TheWho really meant to say was...

Of course there are lots of program which have their own ways of abusing, forcing, and manipulating children, and I can't understand what makes them so wrong.. I have a misbegotten ability not to be able to tell the difference between 'unescorted' and 'consensual'.

I have absolutely no clue what a normal distribution, a bell curve, a standard deviation, or anything else statistics-related is. If I did, I wouldn't be stupid enough to bring them up, because obviously the number of kids to benefit in any way shape or form from this bullshit is such a tiny tail of the curve that it defeats my argument utterly.

Similarly, I have no idea what might be wrong with time-designated therapy, so I'll spew a lot of nonsense about how my victim/daughter was forced to stay for a preset length of time that was similar to what they advertised. Imagine that!

Again, I have no idea what "consensual" means, and I like to pretend kids aren't prisoners when they really are.

I am not trying to justify programs, I'm just trying to justify programs. Oh, wait...

In my twisted little mind, TBSes are "ordinary" as far as treatment methods go. This is beause I need to be shot in the face repeatedly. Someone please, for the love of Satan, kill me now.

I honestly believe 'behavior modification' is a valid form of therapy. Have I mentioned that I seriously need to die?


Come on, Master Nihil, I wish you would stop beating my ass, its not about us winning or losing an argument.  Its about hurting the kids !!  Why cant you see this?  Who cares how many times you beat my monkey ass?  These kids need help getting the fuck away from idiots like me who will put them in private prison.


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« Reply #128 on: May 03, 2006, 10:24:00 PM »
::rocker::

Damn I love that thing.
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« Reply #129 on: May 05, 2006, 06:21:00 PM »
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Your population includes some kids who committed suicide after they returned home, not at school.  

That's like saying a soldier should not be be on the  Irqai causualty list because s/he died after being transported to Germany, not IN Iraq.
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« Reply #130 on: May 05, 2006, 06:39:00 PM »
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On 2006-05-03 12:27:00, TheWho wrote:

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On 2006-05-03 12:14:00, Dysfunction Junction wrote:


"And if you put them in a program, the death rate goes up 434 times.





I'll take my chances and avoid the programs.





One in one million vs. one in 2,300.  It ain't that hard to figure out, hoss.  Programs kill kids at 434 times the rate of the rest of society.

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Calm down DJ and get your facts straight:



Your population includes some kids who committed suicide after they returned home, not at school.  



Its not apples and apples.



Bottom line the suicide rate is high based on NCES studies and that is what parents are reacting to,  you have no data to support your position except for Deborahs list which is uncontrolled data.



Sorry DJ, I have to go with the facts and controlled studies.

Screw you and your "facts and controlled studies".
My daughter was kidnapped and sent to one of shitholes by her father.  She was 13, not out of control, a really good kid, getting good grades etc. etc.  He was just pissed off.  The trauma bent her backwards and after years of trying to get past it she hung herelf.  The suicide estimate for kids who get shipped off, abandoned by their parents and abused in the programs is really just the tip of the iceberg because the kids go home, they just fade into the twilight and when they self-destruct years later no one puts it together.  ::unhappy::




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