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Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2006-04-13 06:36:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Get the story straight...Lars was called to ask why he felt that way, not that he shouldn't feel that way. When someone graduates from Hyde the way he did, as a leader and recipient of a Diploma, one would be confused when reading his numerous diatribes on how much he hated the school and how he "played" the game.
So the call was out of concern from someone who called him/herself a friend during the time Lars spent his time at Hyde.
I am so sick of your Hyde bashing, when you know nothing more than you've read on this hianus site!"
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Your response to Lars is very irritating. How do you know that he "played the game"? For all you know, Lars has developed new insights since leaving Hyde and now, as a mature adult, has a much better understanding of what his Hyde experience was all about. He seems incredibly sincere. I have no sense that he played the game. Rather, he now sees Hyde for what it was and is.
The only satisfaction I get reading your judgmental, confrontational post (and believe me, it's very satisfying) is that parents who are thinking about sending their kid to Hyde read your rant when they Google Hyde and discover this website; they quickly figure out that they don't want their kid surrounded by this kind of pollution. I have no doubt that your very public statements are hurting Hyde's reputation, and that's a good thing in my book.
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2006-04-13 07:52:00, Lars wrote:
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On 2006-04-13 06:36:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Get the story straight...Lars was called to ask why he felt that way, not that he shouldn't feel that way. When someone graduates from Hyde the way he did, as a leader and recipient of a Diploma, one would be confused when reading his numerous diatribes on how much he hated the school and how he "played" the game.
So the call was out of concern from someone who called him/herself a friend during the time Lars spent his time at Hyde.
I am so sick of your Hyde bashing, when you know nothing more than you've read on this hianus site!"
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Maybe this guy called to find out why I felt the way I did, but he quickly began to try to convince me that I'd really had a great experience. So, Mr. Faculty Member, you're clearly the one who needs to get their story straight. And I didn't fake anything, I busted my ass and EARNED that diploma. Withholding one's opinions about the school in that setting isn't duplicitous, it's survival. Of course, for the Hyde folks, anyone who doesn't praise their methods "doesn't get it." "
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Doesn't surprise me that Lars was a "poster boy" for Hyde yet is now letting them know how much he hates the place and their practices. How many more of the "poster boys" are out there either hating their Hyde experience or not doing anything in life other than living off of their parents.
One kid who was featured as a "turnaround" in the Hyde newsletter has been out of Hyde for 4 years and yet is doing nothing other than sitting drinking beer and bumming around the country. Another one is living off of Mommy and Daddy's trust fund and hasn't done a thing with his life. He is following in his parents footsteps. They too live off of a trust fund and do nothing other than try to raise money for Hyde and participate in Hyde activities. They happen to be very nice people, but have clearly turned their lives over to Hyde.
Anonymous:
Lars, fascinating to see how you lawyers work. Bob and weave. Deflect. But whatever you do, when you are wrong, stay off the original topic and never admit your were wrong, correct?
The question to you stands: How does a former friend calling you ONE TIME out of concern, and then Hyde calling your parents for funraising and mentioning you -- how does show that Hyde does not respect privacy?
That's all I've asked.
Now, as to antigen/antipasta whatever your name of the week is....brilliant comment to bring up anti-stalking laws! How close exactly do you think one call is? Shite, we must be right up against the edge here, dontcha think? How insightful of you. Lars, quick, call the police so they can get right on this!! Oh the humanity!!!
Lars:
--- Quote ---On 2006-04-13 08:51:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Lars, fascinating to see how you lawyers work. Bob and weave. Deflect. But whatever you do, when you are wrong, stay off the original topic and never admit your were wrong, correct?
The question to you stands: How does a former friend calling you ONE TIME out of concern, and then Hyde calling your parents for funraising and mentioning you -- how does show that Hyde does not respect privacy?
That's all I've asked.
Now, as to antigen/antipasta whatever your name of the week is....brilliant comment to bring up anti-stalking laws! How close exactly do you think one call is? Shite, we must be right up against the edge here, dontcha think? How insightful of you. Lars, quick, call the police so they can get right on this!! Oh the humanity!!!"
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Actually, my response was pretty straitforward and you know it. Feeble lawyer bashing can't change that. They have no business discussing my feelings with my parents. I don't go to school there anymore. My conversation with my former schoolmate was a PRIVATE conversation, get it? They have a moral duty to respect that.
And you still haven't answered my question - which Hyde campus do you teach at (sure sounds like Bath)? And while we're at it, (and since, as you claim, it's not a privacy issue)which Hyde faculty member discussed the matter with you?
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2006-04-13 08:39:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2006-04-13 06:36:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Get the story straight...Lars was called to ask why he felt that way, not that he shouldn't feel that way. When someone graduates from Hyde the way he did, as a leader and recipient of a Diploma, one would be confused when reading his numerous diatribes on how much he hated the school and how he "played" the game.
So the call was out of concern from someone who called him/herself a friend during the time Lars spent his time at Hyde.
I am so sick of your Hyde bashing, when you know nothing more than you've read on this hianus site!"
--- End quote ---
Your response to Lars is very irritating. How do you know that he "played the game"? For all you know, Lars has developed new insights since leaving Hyde and now, as a mature adult, has a much better understanding of what his Hyde experience was all about. He seems incredibly sincere. I have no sense that he played the game. Rather, he now sees Hyde for what it was and is.
The only satisfaction I get reading your judgmental, confrontational post (and believe me, it's very satisfying) is that parents who are thinking about sending their kid to Hyde read your rant when they Google Hyde and discover this website; they quickly figure out that they don't want their kid surrounded by this kind of pollution. I have no doubt that your very public statements are hurting Hyde's reputation, and that's a good thing in my book."
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How do we know Lars gamed it? He said so in a prior post.
How does hyde let that get by?
sue
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