Think about this for a moment, please. This entire industry rests on solid, pervasive and overwhelming fear of certain relatively benign traits and behaviors in our children.
I think you can describe these, generally, as allure to cultural affects other than those of the parents. They all have essentially the same kinds of "warning signs".
- Flunking out of school or lack of interest in it.
- Deviation from parents sexual or romantic norms.
- Use of currently demonized drugs or affiliation/acceptance of those who do use them.
- Music, fashion, other preferences that suggest or state loudly such kinds of rejection or challenge.
None of these standards are long lasting or correlate to success or failure, peace or war or prosperity or austerity in any culture. And yet there is a strong correlation (causual, I think) between
condemned scapegoated cultural affectations and living a fucked up life.
If we condemn homosexuality, despite it having been present in all of the higher order critters for all of known history, we get fucked up adult homosexuals. Would they still be fucked up people if they had come up in a time when they weren't punished for it?
Same with various drugs. In 1920, fashionable, successful people used Cannabis candy, tincture and other preparations. Some of the more daring, artistic, aristocratic types even had parties to eat and or smoke hash and then write about it. It never fucked up their lives. Now? A kid can find themselves excluded from vital social contacts and oportunities, uneducated, imprisoned, convicted and on the outs w/ his own family for it. THAT will fuck you up for life!
Same with every specific aspect of bad behavior that they claim to address, except for one; rebellion. In every time in all of human history, the rebels have been the ones who live to tell the tale.
What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Straight, Sarasota
`80 - `82
Why I Live at the PO[ This Message was edited by: Eudora on 2006-03-08 15:16 ]