Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform > World Wide Association of Specialty Programs and Schools (WWASPS)
Anyone grateful for the time at Spring Creek Lodge?
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2005-12-20 10:29:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-12-20 10:15:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Is there such a place where they keep him but have family therapy on top of the drug issues
so he can re bond with his family. I tried looking but I am having a hard time finding anything?"
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Yea, its called inpatient rehabilitation treatment center. The same places that offer outpatient, usually offer inpatient. I had a very close friend who went through outpatient substance abuse treatment, continued in school, graduated, and is on to college. It does work, if the individual wants it to work. What makes you think your friend wouldn't succeed in outpatient treatment? Quit thinking for him and his family - let him think for himself."
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MY BROTHER WENT THROUGH OUTPATIENT IT TOOK AN IN PATIENT PLACE TO HELP HIM. MOST DRUGS AND SOME FRIENDS MAKE IT HARD TO BE ABLE TO THINK FOR YOURSELF. WHEN HE WAS IN THE INPATIENT CENTER THEY HAD NO THERAPY FOR HIS FAMILY TO GO THROUGH WITH HIM. I BELIEVE HE ALSO NEEDS TO RE-BOND WITH HIS FAMILY HE IS AT A HARD AGE RIGHT NOW AND NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM WALKING AWAY FROM A LOVING FAMILY. I THINK HE HAS FAMILY ISSUES HE HASN'T WORKED OUT AND SHOULD. AS FAR AS THINKING FOR HIM HOW HE IS LOCKED UP HE HAS KNOW IDEA I AM ASKING QUESTIONS. I WOULD LIKE TO SEE HIM GET THE HELP HE NEEDS AND IF THIS PLACE IS AS BAD AS YOU SAY THEN IT ISN'T WHAT HE NEEDS. IF I CAN FIND I GOOD PLACE MAYBE IS PARENTS WOULD MOVE HIM. SORRY IF NOBODY CARED TO HELP YOU WHEN YOU WERE IN THERE IF YOU WERE MAYBE YOU WOULDN'T BE SO ANGRY IF SOMEONE DID. SO I REALLY DON'T THINK HE WOULD CARE
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2005-12-20 10:59:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-12-20 10:29:00, Anonymous wrote:
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On 2005-12-20 10:15:00, Anonymous wrote:
IF I CAN FIND I GOOD PLACE MAYBE IS PARENTS WOULD MOVE HIM.
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If his parents remove him then they would be admitting they made a horrible mistake - why would they do that?
Anonymous:
Please hit your caps key.
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2005-12-20 10:59:00, Anonymous wrote:
MY BROTHER WENT THROUGH OUTPATIENT IT TOOK AN IN PATIENT PLACE TO HELP HIM. MOST DRUGS AND SOME FRIENDS MAKE IT HARD TO BE ABLE TO THINK FOR YOURSELF. WHEN HE WAS IN THE INPATIENT CENTER THEY HAD NO THERAPY FOR HIS FAMILY TO GO THROUGH WITH HIM. I BELIEVE HE ALSO NEEDS TO RE-BOND WITH HIS FAMILY HE IS AT A HARD AGE RIGHT NOW AND NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM WALKING AWAY FROM A LOVING FAMILY. I THINK HE HAS FAMILY ISSUES HE HASN'T WORKED OUT AND SHOULD. AS FAR AS THINKING FOR HIM HOW HE IS LOCKED UP HE HAS KNOW IDEA I AM ASKING QUESTIONS. I WOULD LIKE TO SEE HIM GET THE HELP HE NEEDS AND IF THIS PLACE IS AS BAD AS YOU SAY THEN IT ISN'T WHAT HE NEEDS. IF I CAN FIND I GOOD PLACE MAYBE IS PARENTS WOULD MOVE HIM. SORRY IF NOBODY CARED TO HELP YOU WHEN YOU WERE IN THERE IF YOU WERE MAYBE YOU WOULDN'T BE SO ANGRY IF SOMEONE DID. SO I REALLY DON'T THINK HE WOULD CARE"
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Please, the caps lock!!!
He's had about all the 'help' he can stand. Tell his parents to STOP HELPING cause its actually HURTING.
Anonymous:
--- Quote ---On 2005-12-20 10:58:00, Anonymous wrote:
"First, unlock you caps. Its annoying and very difficult to read.
Second, I have kids. Yes, they can stay home after they turn 18 but it is NOT my job to dictate what he/she should or shouldn't do with their lives. Both of mine are over 18 and some of the years leading up to that milestone were pretty scary but trying to force them to adopt my POV is a waste of time. There is a reason why kids move out. There is a reason why they become a little nuts for a while. Its called cutting the apron strings, or finding their own autonomy. There is an incredibly fine line between parenting and control nowadays. Quite scary if you ask me. Most kids go through some sort of insane period for a while and most of them grow out of in on their own (even if they do scare the shit out of their parents while going thru said period). Parents need to stop trying to create these little carbon copies of themselves, or Stepford kids that adhere to the perceived 'norm'.
Of course I'll never stop being a parent, but I know where my limitations are and should be."
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I cant say what I will do when my kids hit that age. I hope I never have to make this decision. mine are young. All I do know is they are good parents. I know I had to learn for myself my parents didnt know what I was doing and still don't. I was the youngest I believe they gave up by the time they got to me. I can't tell his parents what to do it has to be there decision I was hoping to find out something I didnt know here like a family camp or something. There other 2 kids are older and have moved out I believe that is there limitations they are still there parents but they are now adults. I can't speak for them but I believe they try as long as they are under age and resposible for them. they dont try to control there lifes. Sorry about the caps I am at work and I have to use them. So they are always on.
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