I agree. Let the man/boy, suffer his own consequences at this age. Save the money! Tell him to get a job, support himself, and move out if he can't abide by the rules of the house. He is old enough. He can learn to ride the bus. He doesn't need a car. Give him some clothes and maybe first month's rent on an apartment. Maybe even give him the same amount that one month at SCL would cost. That would probably support him for a couple of months unless he blows it on drugs. Then if he does... oh well. You tried! If he goes to jail...at least there will be a roof over his head, he will get meals, and forced to study for a high school equivelancy. These parents seem to need boundaries and need to stick with them. Tough love at this age will work, at least for the remaining family. The young man will have to make his own choices on how he chooses to behave and what kind of life he wants. Just make sure you contact an attorney and make sure it is legal in your state to let your 17 year old out on his own. Document EVERYTHING! Pray hard and good luck.