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Offline aftenthurston

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« on: November 14, 2005, 10:37:00 AM »
There are both good and bad things, however i tend to focus on the good. the positive definently outnumbered the negitive, and that is the point i stand stong to.
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« Reply #1 on: November 14, 2005, 11:40:00 AM »
aften dear,
by all means, stand strong by your opinions of YOUR experience. you'd get a lot less flack from others if you'd stick to "I" statements. speak directly of your experience and perception.
Ex: that never happened to me; i didn't witness that; that happened but i didn't think it was that bad.   get the idea?

when you make blanket statements, others feel you are minimizing their apparently less-than-positive experience. and that, you have no right to do. it's rude and offensive.
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« Reply #2 on: November 14, 2005, 12:27:00 PM »
HOLY SHIT
tony volrath!
yo hit me the fuck up
its dan katz
pg 26.
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« Reply #3 on: November 14, 2005, 12:43:00 PM »
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On 2005-11-14 07:37:00, aftenthurston wrote:

"There are both good and bad things, however i tend to focus on the good. the positive definently outnumbered the negitive, and that is the point i stand stong to."


Tony is right on the money. You may have had a positive experience, but that in no way negates the things that happened to other people. Recall you claimed you had some lesbians looking out for you, that may have changed your situation. So while you might be able to say the positive definitly outnumbered the negative, that is not the case for everyone.

Nor does it entitle you to make assumptions and generalizations about hundreds of other kids whom youve never met and know nothing about.

Your opinions and your experiences are yours to comment on.

Dont try and insist things about other people based on your experiences, you dont know what happened to them there and you dont know why.

Get over yourself.
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« Reply #4 on: November 14, 2005, 12:50:00 PM »
You're telling me to get over myself, and not to make generalizations, however that is exactly what you re doing... seems rather hypocritical, eh?
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« Reply #5 on: November 14, 2005, 12:50:00 PM »
What generalizations or assumptions have I made. List them off please.
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« Reply #6 on: November 14, 2005, 12:54:00 PM »
Every other negitive statement that you ahve made is either a generalization or assumption... i'm not going to waste more of my time giving you the mere pleasure of doing what you ask... why would i want to rummage through each and every board to find where you have proved yourself as a hypocrite?
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« Reply #7 on: November 14, 2005, 12:59:00 PM »
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On 2005-11-14 09:54:00, aftenthurston wrote:

"Every other negitive statement that you ahve made is either a generalization or assumption... i'm not going to waste more of my time giving you the mere pleasure of doing what you ask... why would i want to rummage through each and every board to find where you have proved yourself as a hypocrite?

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So you make a claim, yet you cant provide a single example?

I see....

The negative statements I have made concerning HLA are based on facts.

I have not made any assumptions, nor have I ever spoken about people I dont know.

Unlike you on the other hand.

Should we compare my assumptions with yours.

Whos going to have made more?

You I think.
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« Reply #8 on: November 14, 2005, 01:15:00 PM »
and what point does that prove?
none
just trying to prove the same one that you reiterated time and time again.
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« Reply #9 on: November 14, 2005, 01:27:00 PM »
Youre the one who claimed Ive made assumptions and generalizations.

You cant however back up this claim.

I can against you.
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« Reply #10 on: November 14, 2005, 01:52:00 PM »
Jesus, Mary and Joseph! YOu have made false claims, and generalizations... such as everyone being abused and such... are you just oblivious to your own remarks?
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« Reply #11 on: November 14, 2005, 04:01:00 PM »
Dan! AIM is screwed up on my computer but I'll reinstall it later and see if your on. Hope all is well... there are sure some crazy posts on this board.

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« Reply #12 on: November 14, 2005, 08:51:00 PM »
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"Jesus, Mary and Joseph! YOu have made false claims, and generalizations... such as everyone being abused and such... are you just oblivious to your own remarks?"


Please post the quote in which I stated every student at HLA was abused.
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« Reply #13 on: November 14, 2005, 08:55:00 PM »
yeah im great tony
id love to catch up
you always were the shit at Hidden Lake, absolutely my favorite AC.

dan pg 26.
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« Reply #14 on: November 16, 2005, 02:26:00 AM »
Im sorry Aften were you not going to be able to do that ever?
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