I didn't come back and read this stuff until now, because I knew it would make me mad and I would respond. I should have allowed this thread to stay dead. Fornits can be a very good thing, but it is going to require that everyone put on their bigboy/biggirl panties and act like adults. Basicly, I guess what I am saying is that I would like to from this point forward retake fornits, and have this be a place where people can openly and honestly share their stories without all the malignant crap. I am Debi's friend, and I know her story. I remember Amy, Yvette, and Anne from the homes. I support Debi because I feel she is a good and decent person, and she is sincerely trying to get on with her life. She is a good person, and that is all there is to say about that. The insults in this thread should have stayed dead, but once again I am on my soapbox.