TS,
I have posted numerous articles and essays on the topic of so-called mental illnesses and disorders. Just Search WWF for ADHD and/or SSRIs.
Other than genuine brain damage, there are no tests that can prove any of them exist or are 'genetic'. No blood test or brain scan.
The APA adopted the medical model (for which there are objective tests to prove disease) but the only 'test' for MIs are subjective observation. Psych drugs 'cure' nothing, but can result in death.
There are so many factors that can affect attitude/behavior. Many a child/person has been drugged when they only needed a change of diet, more exercise, a different learning environment or job, quality attention from an adult they admire, some treatment for a genuine medical problem, etc. One study showed a drastic improvement of subjects with 'ADHD' by simply taking them to a green space everyday. I think this was in NY, if memory serves.
Humans have been altering their consciousness forever. Even little children do it- sucking, rocking, spinning. Appears there may be an inherent desire. Or perhaps the world is so hard, the desire surfaces very early.
Your daughter, like others in her generation have been bombarded with constant advertisements, conditioning them to rely on drugs for whatever ails them. If they don't get it from the media, their peers will educate them. Think of the poor saps who took Viagra (was it) to enhance their sexual performance and ended up blind ! Lawsuits are in the works. Again, no 'cure', just a cover-up of symptoms, IF one is lucky. And the side effects are frequently as bad or worse than the problem.
I personally believe that modern humans are living in a highly stressful, unnatural state. It's easy to understand why people would seek relief, even from their 'struggling' children who they have no time for. The question, which is one that is forced on teens in programs, is this taking responsibility? I think not.
My son went through a kinda goth period AFTER a program. His 'symptoms' were what psychs label 'ptsd'. He made and wore anarchy t-shirt with cammo or black pants, army boots, chains. Everything purchased at Goodwill or the Army Surplus store. No piercings- hates needles. He was also over 6' tall and had parrot green hair for a while, so image the stares. Hey, it was easy to locate him in a crowd!! After many hours of counseling, he described it to me and his counselor (a friend of mine) as his 'safety blanket'. It repelled others. He eventually desired a change because it was repelling some people (mostly girls) that he wanted to be close to. His counselor told me to wait it out, it would be a good indicator of where he was emotionally. He eventually swaped it for the skater look and took up skateboarding. I never gave people in public the opportunity to make negative comments. I treated him with respect in their presence and just warmly smiled when someome would look to me to see what reaction I might tolerate from them.
Not all kids who are Goth/Bohemian/etc have been through the heinous treatment he received, but they are square pegs who desire to distinquish themselves from others- or the many I've known were. And if you listen to them, they are typically very intellegent and much more in touch with the reality of their world than mainstreamers. A strong visual expression of 'I refuse to conform or accept the way things are'.
Unfortunately, as many of the radical baby boomers found out- Change is extremely difficult, if at all possible. The square pegs I've known eventually change (give in?) around the time they decide that earning a living is more important than their visual statement of non conformity. A few did go into work that didn't require a change- musicians, artists, etc.