The one thing that BCA did that PISSED me off was the whole bans thing. They were so used to having females come in and be promiscuous that they had no clue what to do with a tomboy like myself. My second day there I was put on all guy bans. The bad thing about BCA was the majority was guys! They never really did get to my root problems, due to the fact that they were always putting me on restrictions for calling people "bitches". As far as the staff went, I liked the ones who were there to help, which was the majority in my mind until they just started firing them all off. I loved the friends that I made and even though I do not speak with the "best" friends that I thought I had there, I will always cherish the pictures I have of us and the memories we created! I do owe CEDU the fact that if they weren't there, my mother would not have been able to save my life by sending me there. But as I began to grow there, I realized that the things that was said to me, was said to basically ever other female that went there. It became unauthentic and I just began making my own way the way I thought I needed to make it. I have done great ever since CEDU and have not had many harsh feelings for them. Until, of course, the CHANGE!
