I love the double standard here!
If something bad happened to you, an individual, through the faults of a fucked up/incompetent/corrupt authority/institution/beaurocratcy, or just bad luck, you should "shut up and stop whining"
But if YOU do bad to others, YOU have to 'face the consequences, unlike the " fucked up/incompetent/corrupt authority/institution/beaurocratcy", and the victim doesnt have to 'let it go', you have to make it right.
:cry2: wah wah wah. Criticism and "sunshine" is something this nation is sorely lacking in, and needs a heavy dose of, thank you very much.