On 2005-06-22 11:02:00, Anonymous wrote:
parents use brainwashing to train there kids if you think about it... really there is no harm in what some of the schools do. most of the kids go home to successful lives. MOST, not all. "
Ok, first off, we're not talking about your program right now. We're talking about a different type of experience altogether that may, incidentally, entail some of the same kinds of damaging effects.
Second, MOST people who I've met who have been through your type of programs do not attibute their success at life to the Program. Many of us feel we were made stronger, tougher (trial by fire). Friend of mine mentioned just yesterday how adept he is at working a crowd and how that's helped him in his stage performance. No heckler on this fucking
planet is a fair match for a Straight vet!
But there is GREAT harm in what these "schools" do! Those behavior modifying techniques, based on a million subtle and not so subtle hints and gestures and tied to crucial love, affection, approval, support... that's some dangerous stuff! That's emotional TNT! Handle w/ care!
The difference between loving discipline and guidance in a family or community and the forced regimen of the Program is
exactly the difference between romance and rape; it all hinges on consent.
Theology: The effort to explain the unknowable in terms of the not worth knowing.
--H. L. Mencken, American publisher