Rooney, It is very sad how things get crazy and mean amongst people who all share the same experiences, I don't know if you have ever visited the Roloff Alumni group on yahoo but I have been really happy being there for several years, the chat is light-hearted and fun, sometimes we express our hurts and pains from our past and everyone is so eager to help with a kind reply of comfort and most likely similar feelings. The people are really funny and nice so if you have'nt already been there or if you have then stop in and say hello. Don't get defeated, there are people out there who want to enjoy reuniting.