This is the first topic that I have seen in a long time that is worth commenting on. I can see this from both perspectives, but one makes much more sense. This is supposed to be a place where people can come to talk about their feelings about elan, WITHOUT being censored. Now, obviously Chrysta seems to get annoyed with people "complaining" about things. So... move on to the next topic that DOESN'T annoy you. If they all bother you in some way, maybe you are coming to the wrong message board. Suggesting to other people that they "need some help" because they possess different feelings than you do- is pretty fucked up. Think of it this way- if you had a friend that had been abused by a parent, or if you knew someone who had been raped- or basically if you knew anyone who was the victim of ANY kind of abuse- who also knew that their attacker was still out there- would you tell them to grow up and get some help?! Or to just get over it?! Probably not- unless you are a shitty friend. I'm thinking that you would probably encourage them to report it, talk about the situation, talk about their feelings etc. I don't know if you remember the part of elan where we learn that there are no right or wrong feelings, what's right or wrong is what you do with them. In my opinion coming to a message board and venting these feelings with people who may have experienced similar things- is perfectly healthy.
