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Offline Chrysta

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« on: May 29, 2005, 10:20:00 AM »
I have barely been on this board in the last several months and there is still the same verbal garbage being spewed. My good God, people.... GET OVER IT!!! I get it, we get, Elan sucked, Elan was hard, a bad bad place, Elan was abusive , Elan has abusive people as staff.     BOO HOO!!! Law suit this, harrassment that... Fact is, Elan isn't going to be shut down because a few disgruntled old residents can't take responsibility for their own actions and deal with what position they put themselves in. (Art, not directed at you.... we all know your DIFFERENT story and how it has affected you.) I agree that Elan wasn't/isn't for everyone, but none of us were saints. SOme of us just had the capabilities to change our outlook instead of wallowing in our own miseries. :cry2:
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« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2005, 08:57:00 PM »
Hi Chrysta, Nice to see you back. I check in from time to time but there is only depressing crazy garbage. I'm grateful for the nice weather because it leaves me with little time for stuff like this. Well, I hope all is well. Cindy
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« Reply #2 on: May 31, 2005, 05:00:00 PM »
Thanks Cindy. And Yes, the weather is finally nice enough to be outside. Love it!!
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« Reply #3 on: May 31, 2005, 10:18:00 PM »
Hi Cindy and Chrysta!!!!!!
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« Reply #4 on: May 31, 2005, 11:52:00 PM »
what if the physical labor that was endured while in elan had to make you leave the program for 2 months to get major, invasive back surgey....? is it ok to sue then? :wstupid:
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« Reply #5 on: June 01, 2005, 02:26:00 PM »
uhhh... yeah, but you wont win
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« Reply #6 on: June 01, 2005, 06:58:00 PM »
What if you called or wrote to the state of maine
attorney general's office ..
Elan cant buy everyone off
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« Reply #7 on: June 01, 2005, 08:50:00 PM »
Well Chrysta what would you do if that was you?
The truth is some fucked up shit went down back in the day, but its ok because it didnt happen to you?
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« Reply #8 on: June 02, 2005, 10:06:00 AM »
BACK IN THE DAY?????

I was there in the 90's and some "fucked up shit" happened then to.
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« Reply #9 on: June 03, 2005, 10:33:00 PM »
Hey, How are things going with your little boy, and how old is he now? Any new photos? I'd love to see them.
 We just got some depressing news at the doctor's the other day. My son Marshall, who is only 11, has mono. He is SO sick! No school, no sports,(no work & no paycheck either). I feel like I have a baby in the house again because he is so weak and helpless. I have to focus on the positive and remind myself, He WILL get better. It is just so hard to see him like this.
Other than this setback, life is good! Cindy
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« Reply #10 on: June 04, 2005, 02:46:00 PM »
Sorry to hear about your son, Mono sucks. Austin is almost 11 months now, he started walking at 8 months so he is a terror now. Give me your email and I will send you some pics, sed it private though. Hang in there.
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« Reply #11 on: June 04, 2005, 05:26:00 PM »
No, it's not okay because I wasn't beat, but let me remind you people that I had my fair share of shit in Elan. Not an easy place to be regardless of the time period. I know this, I accept this, but "back in the day" is way too long ago for people to be still be suffering. My point- GET SOME HELP!!! My comment was more refering to the constant defamation of all the staff members there. While you older folk seem to think we younger ones are belittling your experiences there by not recognizing what you went through, you guys (cough, cough Art) are belittling our experiences there by CONSTANTLY ridiculing and and defaming those that helped to save some of our lives. I wonder, can we move on from all the nasty, cruel, hurtful talk and instead productively talk about our experiences????
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« Reply #12 on: June 05, 2005, 07:01:00 AM »
Will Help a lot it did in MA with Desisto.  Also there is a Wall Street Journal Reporter that is always looking for these kinds of stories I forgot his name but ill post it.
Exposure by papers, Investigative teams in news stations that will get them.
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« Reply #13 on: June 05, 2005, 07:16:00 PM »
Not an easy place to be regardless of the time period. I know this, I accept this, but "back in the day" is way too long ago for people to be still be suffering. My point- GET SOME HELP!!!
 
Who are you to say when its time for the suffering to end.Even like I or others have control over the nightmares...Only one thing to say Christa....FUCK YOU AND YOUR HOLYNESS !!!!
your the one who needs help.....
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« Reply #14 on: June 05, 2005, 11:53:00 PM »
Guys,
 I think Chrysta is just trying to say, If you move on with your lives, you will all be much happier. Dredging up horrible thoughts from the past, really only hurt the one who is thinking about these events. It's like being angry at someone, who you can't yell at, or discuss why you are angry with them. Who is affected? The one who holds the anger.
Personally, I completely understand this concept, but "I" am one of those that has a hard time letting go, even though I really know I am only hurting myself.
Just some food for thought. I think you guys are being a little tough on Chrysta. She really seems like a caring person.
Easy..............
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