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Offline D??&am

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« on: April 30, 2005, 10:16:00 PM »
just picked up my boy from Darrington Acadamy.....he saw us came out crying....and we left I just got back and ....i feel much better ....and he to
thanks peeps for giving me some feedback here !!!
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« Reply #1 on: April 30, 2005, 10:24:00 PM »
Glad to hear it.
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« Reply #2 on: April 30, 2005, 11:26:00 PM »
Congratulations and thank you.  ::heart::  :tup:

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« Reply #3 on: May 01, 2005, 04:44:00 AM »
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"just picked up my boy from Darrington Acadamy.....he saw us came out crying....and we left I just got back and ....i feel much better ....and he to

thanks peeps for giving me some feedback here !!! "


Thank you so much for getting your son out of there... I'll sleep better tonight knowing that another child was rescued.
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« Reply #4 on: May 01, 2005, 12:17:00 PM »
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"just picked up my boy from Darrington Acadamy.....he saw us came out crying....and we left I just got back and ....i feel much better ....and he to

thanks peeps for giving me some feedback here !!! "


Will you please call Georgia Department of Family and Children's Services (DFACS) and tell them what happened to your son there, and follow it up with a letter for their files?

It's really important, for the sake of other children, to start building a paper trail track record on these facilities as soon as possible.  Darrington is in Blue Ridge, which is in Fannin County, if I'm correct.

If they aren't sure if a law was broken, you may want to tell them you've since found out an organization their key people are strongly associated with, WWASPS, has a record of a lot of allegations of abuse and usually says the kids are lying, and that you would like your experience to go in their file so that when they get an abuse complaint (and I personally believe there will be complaints) they will have your contact information and your account in helping to corroborate the background details of the complaint from your own experience.

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Fannin County Department of Family and Children Services
990 E. Main, Suite 10
Blue Ridge, GA, 30513
(706) 632-2296
Brenda Crawford

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If you feel Darrington's services were misrepresented to you, will you please also send a letter saying so, with a copy of your DFACS letter attached, to the attorney general of the state of Georgia?

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Office of the Attorney General of Georgia
Thurbert E. Baker
40 Capital Square, SW
Atlanta, GA 30334
404-656-3300

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I'm a voter in Georgia and I don't want WWASPS seminars and the other harm they do, in my opinion, allegedly (ahem) allegedly, going on in my home state.

I know you're in the middle of a family crisis right now, but it could really help other kids for DFCS and the GA Attorney General's office to know you were dissatisfied with Darrington, and why.

Darrington just opened up here, and it is important that they not be able to create the illusion of a track record with lots and lots of satisfied parents and no problems.  It's important that dissatisfied parents start letting the local authorities know what their experience was, even if you don't think any laws were broken, from the very beginning.

That way, when someone else complains, and maybe they will have experienced something that breaks the laws, and their reports of their experience substantially tallies with your reports of your experience and you're child's experience, then the  facility has a much harder time *credibly* saying that the other kid and his parents are lying.

It's a bit like building a case against someone for sexual harrassment or child molestation (strictly for example--not alleging this about Darrington)---establishing a pattern is important, whether the laws were provably, actionably breached in your "pattern" witnesses' cases or not.  Establishing the pattern bolsters the case when you actually get the complaint you can take into court.

It's very important that even if you don't think you have a provable case, you contact DFCS and the AG's office.  Tell them that from what you now know of the organization, you expect it will be only a matter of time before they will have a case, and that you want to make yourself and your son available to them to help in establishing the pattern for *that* case when and if (but I believe when) it arises down the road.

Thank you in advance, so much, for doing this.

It just breaks my heart that these people have set up shop here in Georgia.

Timoclea
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« Reply #5 on: May 01, 2005, 07:23:00 PM »
You should make a report to the authorities if your son experienced or witnessed any abuse at the facility.  You may need to look at the laws in Georgia.  I don't think many states have rules in place for youth programs yet. It really is a new industry.
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« Reply #6 on: May 01, 2005, 09:08:00 PM »
detleg - thank you.

BTW, I'm in NC, so I'm not exactly all that far away.

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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

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« Reply #7 on: May 02, 2005, 10:19:00 AM »
What Parent refers to people as peeps? That is a term used in hip hop and by teens today?Very interesting. Is this a Troll?
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« Reply #8 on: May 02, 2005, 10:26:00 AM »
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On 2005-04-30 19:16:00, D?æ???? wrote:


"just picked up my boy from Darrington Acadamy.....he saw us came out crying....and we left I just got back and ....i feel much better ....and he to


thanks peeps for giving me some feedback here !!! "




Thank you so much for getting your son out of there... I'll sleep better tonight knowing that another child was rescued. "


I do not know your child but I hope that he doesn't go back to being the kind of child that he was before, because you believed all these idiots. These people are obviously former students. IF you go back and look at the conversations of the people who are trying to "save kids" they are very vulger and negative people. I bet your son was very motivated at getting drugs and alcohol. In fact he ran away to get it. These people are not that far from being like your son. Thanks for helping me feel better about where my son is.
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« Reply #9 on: May 02, 2005, 10:59:00 AM »
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I bet your son was very motivated at getting drugs and alcohol. In fact he ran away to get it. These people are not that far from being like your son. Thanks for helping me feel better about where my son is. "


More propaganda. You know nothing about this person yet you are feeding in the same old stuff weve all heard before....and that usually wasnt even true.
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« Reply #10 on: May 02, 2005, 11:02:00 AM »
If he DOES need help, it doesnt make sense to put him in a place like that...you did the right thing. There are lots of other options out there, including family therapy.

Dont give up!!
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« Reply #11 on: May 02, 2005, 11:13:00 AM »
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I do not know your child but I hope that he doesn't go back to being the kind of child that he was before, because you believed all these idiots. These people are obviously former students. IF you go back and look at the conversations of the people who are trying to "save kids" they are very vulger and negative people. I bet your son was very motivated at getting drugs and alcohol. In fact he ran away to get it. These people are not that far from being like your son. Thanks for helping me feel better about where my son is. "


1. You know nothing about this man or his son, yet you allow yourself to make assumptions and throw around insults. And then you move on to complaining about "vulgar" and "negative" people. You should take a long, hard look in the mirror.

2. Regardless of the way people here may talk or react to your propaganda (why wouldn't our reactions be negative, considering the fact that you are promoting an abuse, destructive cult?), the fact stands that all of WWASP's facilities are highly abusive, and this man did the right thing by protecting his son and taking him someplace safe-- home.

3. "In fact he ran away to get it. These people are not that far from being like your son."-- and you know that how, exactly...?

4. "Thanks for helping me feel better about where my son is."-- So, you feel good about paying someone to physically, emotionally, and perhaps even sexually abuse your child. That's sick.

Detleg,

You did the right thing. As a parent, you have an obligation to ensure your child's safety and well-being, and you did just that, by taking him out of an abusive facility.
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« Reply #12 on: May 02, 2005, 12:09:00 PM »
***It's very important that even if you don't think you have a provable case, you contact DFCS and the AG's office.

Also, CC the Office of Regulatory Services:

Two Peachtree Street, N.W.
Atlanta, Georgia 30303-3142
(404)657-5700
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« Reply #13 on: May 02, 2005, 01:12:00 PM »
You don't even know if this is a troll or not.
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« Reply #14 on: May 02, 2005, 04:36:00 PM »
Lemme repeat myself:

I've never been in a program!

Now, that done, if I'm 'rude' or 'negative' its because I'm a little ticked off that people get paid to torture and brainwash children they're allowed to kidnap while their parents smugly delude themselves and the kid is cut off from outside help.

If you think I WOULDNT get mad about that, then youre in a bubble world.

We need cops.

We can't live without 'em.

But they need to start working for us....

That's no longer an option.

They've pushed it.

They've gone to far.

They've just gone to far.
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."