anon, I'd like to invite you to grow up a bit about pornography and masturbation. Its a damned fantasy. Let the kid have his damn thrills. At least hes not out fucking around, if this actually existed.
I seem to handle it without being addicted to anything or objectifying women. Well, unless she happens to get off on being objectified. BDSM sure is interesting :grin:
Some of it can be degrading, but porn doesnt 'degrade' a whole gender. I'm sure I could go find some gay S&M that 'degrades' men and show it to you but you'd probably want nothing of it.
Also, FYI, I know a mom who is pretty pragmatic and upfront with her kids about the topic. Her only objection is "do it in your room" which she only had to say when they were about 10 years old. That and she doesnt want to see things left around the house.
It worked just fine, and neither of them objectify their respective opposite sex. I can understand it if its a MORAL objection - but porn certainly hasnt made ME objectify women or treat them badly.
Infact, if they did porn RIGHT and the models were interviewed after the scenes, youd see they ARE people, and not just a hunk of wet flesh with makeup on. But well, this isnt the kidn of forum where I should be plugging porn sites. :razz:
A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.
-- Robert Heinlein
