Wow, how did we go from a memorial service for our friends that suffered , some of whom died to backbitting , name calling, and racial slurs.
Are you all really still in group?
I did like one point someone made "How are we to impress upon the public our message if we cant even talk amoungst ourselves" Very good point.
I am in shock someone offers a memorial service to honor our friends and it turns into this. In my humble opinion, I wonder what they would say, I wonder how they would feel about this? I wonder if we are all really just wrapped up in our abuse or if we really do care about what happened to the person in the chair next to us.
Have no fear, the memorial service will be done in a professional manner, one that I think would make those no longer here , feel cared about and remembered.
I really like the idea of the chairs. I think thats better than the coffin the empty chair with a name.
So, for those of you who care about what happened to the person next to you, who wish to honor those that paid the ultimate price, who want to remember them and band together and in some small way and let the world know their death was not in vain , by all means join us.
For those of you that wish to continue to tear each other apart, to hurt the person next to you with words well maybe it just isnt your thing and thats ok.
I look forward to getting together. I think, not sure after this.
Straights Biggest and most effective weapon and tactic was and ALWAYS has been to set one against the other, to give brownie points, to those who confront, emotionally destroy or physically abuse the one next to them so they can ask for 2nd or 3rd phase.
Are you all who are YEARS out of the program really still falling for that. It tears at the rest of us to see you all do this to each other AGAIN!!!
Just a thought
No Longer In Group
