Chrysta,
There is no need for you to justify your life, I don't even know you and it is obvious from your posts that you are a good person, and while these losers probably have no idea what its like to be a parent, being a good one is the best trait anyone could have. I am sure your children are al beautiful and you are a wonderful mom, so these fools can all fuck off. The bags over their heads shows the true courage and conviction they have, none. While Jordan may be a dick, at least he says who he is. You wil notice whenever someone rips me they are anon, none would have the balls to step to me, they never feel froggy - they do the same to you, so ignore them.
Art - thanks for the well wishes, I hope you and your family have a great holiday.
Anon fools - if you think being nice and relating to people is asskissing, then your right!