On 2006-06-30 16:53:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Uhhh yea, I don't know who the fuck Annie Hall is, but I guess she was on to something. You're a fucking queer, you little bitch, clearly you deserved to get raped in the ass while you were at CEDU, too bad it DIDN'T HAPPEN!! And what is all this bitching about rape and shit at CEDU anyways? Even if it DID happen, it's not like it DOESN'T HAPPEN EVERYWHERE ELSE. Why do you little cocksuckers think you had it so bad? Seriously, don't you fucking read? Have you turned on the news in the last, I don't know, 10 fucking years?? We all suffered through CEDU, just take it for what the fuck it's worth, and clean the fucking snot from your nose you pathetic little bitch. Quit crying about the abuse that wasn't happening. I was there for 2 1/2 years and I never saw someone get struck by staff ONCE nor heard of it happening. Yea ONE KID died at NWA or something because he was restrained too hard. Accidents fucking happen, what you're gonna tell me the staff murdered him? Grow the fuck up yourself man. You all are fucking sad. Pussies!! Someone should toss your ass in a military prison, let you get beaten within an inch of your life, let you feel someone's fuckin' cock up in your belly button every night. Let you feel some REAL ABUSE, SOME REAL TORTURE. Fuck, I'm surprised you didn't enjoy CEDU more than normal high school, since you always had someone fucking wiping your ass for you there. "
Ok, I don't know why the personna called "Annie Hall" is even in the mix here!! But since this is the case...
By way of intro, I'm the person the site regulars/ losers/clowns (that would be you Robert and SOS) occasionally call "Annie Hall".
I'm not,of course...but that won't keep these bumbling idiots from saying I am!
Also don't know who the quoted poster is: apparently someone who also thinks it's inexplicable that certain bimbos here have decided that "Annie Hall"'s got something to do his/her post.
Too, too funny.
I don't want to get hung up on words and terminology.
And maybe I personally wouldn't have put things exactly the way this particular poster did. But at the end of the day, you know, that poster is really on to something.
Kids who get sent to a TBS, emotional growth school, whatever you like to call it, have it pretty good,in terms of potential, considering the alternatives.
Which are often prison, boot camp/reform school, life in crime, even death on the street.
When I first found this site, I suppose I was naive. I thought that pointing out the successes of these schools was enough, that certain truths would carry the day. And on occasion I admit that I got caught up in the baiting and the fighting and all the pointless crap that can happen here, not proud of it, but that's the way it was at times.
And eventually,I came to realize that things were much more complex than the quibbling that was going on:for a spectrum of reasons, the regulars here have a vested interest in holding onto a very black and white vision of the evil boarding school and the poor misguided teenager.
No parent with a kid in trouble could believe in this simplistic dichotomy.
I've come to realize that meaningful discussion on a web board is a pretty unlikely thing. Very little invested in the whole process at this point.
All I have to say to any parents who stumble onto this site is this: consider the ways of being of those who oppose all restraint of adolescents who are self-destructive.
Realistically, consider what your child's future is going to be if you stay the current course.
And when you've done your research and weighed your options, then act. Because I'm here to tell you that things can get better, it happened with us and it can happen with you.
Realistic believing, and committment, and an unwillingness to accept the negative hole into which your child is sinking: that and a little courage and you can change the future.