If desperation strategies were peachy keen effective, then all the rich of this world would have perfect children who grew into perfect adults with no problems, perfectly competent at life, perfectly coping, perfectly wonderful.
Sure.
Who here *doesn't* know pain in the butt, screw up, dysfunctional, dishonest, obnoxious adults? It's impossible to *avoid* knowing some.
Sure, they may not be your friends, they may not be the people you voluntarily hang out with, but whether they're your kin, or kin of someone you know, or neighbors of your kin, or your neighbors, or your friends' neighbors---everybody knows obnoxious, screwed up adults.
We've got a man in our neighborhood who drove drunk, crashed his car, and the neighbor lady in his car got her scalp cut open badly and got back injuries--and now he wants to blame her and says she's not *really* hurt.
We've got a family in our neighborhood a few streets over that has been making death threats to their neighbors, their mother slapped the heck out of another parent's kid for no good reason, and their life is basically a soap opera.
They're not teenagers with their hormones wonky. They don't even have the excuse of having the immature judgment of youth. They're just adults who are sometimes really obnoxious and really screwed up.
And we don't live in a terribly cheap neighborhood.
There are *always* pain in the butt obnoxious people, and shipping them off to some damned behavior mod boot camp does NOT fix them.
My god, if these places really worked, you'd have every state in the country lined up to hire the Litchfields to run the state prison system and "fix" all the violent felons.
You'd have every state mental hospital hiring the Litchfields to "cure" all the chronic mental patients.
You might as well send a kid to an RTC for Lymphoma or T-cell Leukemia as to send a kid to a behavior mod boot camp for having a major mental illness or just being an obnoxious asshole. You've got about an equal chance of curing any of the four.
Behavior modification boot camps are the patent medicine shows of the 21st century.
Timoclea