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Have you ever got your hear broken into
« on: August 12, 2004, 07:44:00 PM »
a million pieces, by someone you trust, when you are broke, depressed and caring for small children....

how did you pick yourself up?
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« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2004, 08:17:00 PM »
Spend alot of time with people who love you. Find atleast one who has the attention to hear you vent (cry, grieve)... until you're vented out.
See good movies. Exercise hard.
Don't let it hold you down.
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« Reply #2 on: August 12, 2004, 08:20:00 PM »
The answer is easy, but in practice it is very hard.  Yes, I had my heart broken in a million pieces more than I care to admit.  I also had young children to tend to.  My answer is just that.  Tend to your children.  In tending them, you tend yourself.  The pain is real, and feeling it is ok.  But do not act on this pain in any destructive way for you or your children.  If you or your children are in danger you must take appropriate actions to protect yourself.

Feeling heart broken is normal in the course of one's life.  You will survive it as long as you act responsible.

Some depression is also normal from time to time as we course our way through life.  Only you can determine if your depression is temporary or not.  Again, if you are acting responsibe, then it probably is temporary.

I do hope you find the strength inside yourself to carry on in a responsible way.  For your sake, and for the sake of your children.
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« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2004, 09:36:00 PM »
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On 2004-08-12 16:44:00, Anonymous wrote:

"a million pieces, by someone you trust, when you are broke, depressed and caring for small children....



how did you pick yourself up?"



I work lots of hours, attend school, and volunteer. When I stay busy I don't have time to feel sad. Night time is the worst because there is no one around. I will do a lot of reading, cleaning, and taking long bubbles baths to help me feel better and relax. Also I don't talk to people about it if they are the type to just say negative things. Have you told the person how you feel? Any chance this could be a mis-understanding and things worked out?
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« Reply #4 on: August 13, 2004, 12:35:00 AM »
I don't know exactly what your situation is, but I'm sure we have all been there once or twice in our adult lives. I know it sounds cheesy, but I have found this really helps. Like other posts before this, finding someone who will listen to you whole-heartedly would be a good start. The sooner you express your feelings, the sooner you can put things into perspective in order to deal with them. It really sucks sometimes to break down, especially in front of others, but it will give you a chance to clear your head and your heart. Maybe then you will start to feel a little better. I am sorry you got your heart broken, and I hope you get to feeling better soon.

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« Reply #5 on: August 13, 2004, 06:28:00 PM »
Thanks.

I wish I were mistaken but the upshot is being left with two small children with no money and insurance and to find out my spouse was dishonest. I'm in a new state so I don't know anyone. I just feel old and hopeless and like life has passed me by.  I'm just disappointed. I'm not sure that I'll ever find love and happiness.
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« Reply #6 on: August 13, 2004, 10:47:00 PM »
Yes you will find love and happiness - b/c you have sence enough to look for them.
Also consider; if you are never hurt by another person, you would then almost surely be a psycopath. Anyone with the capasity to love and trust another person is going to be hurt at some point. Usually many points, in the corse of a lifetime.
I am sorry you have been left in your present circumstances. That is very hard. It sounds like your going to need a decent job. I can't possibly know what to suggest along those lines - But you'll get it figured out and be fine.
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« Reply #7 on: August 14, 2004, 07:13:00 AM »
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I wish I were mistaken but the upshot is being left with two small children with no money and insurance and to find out my spouse was dishonest. I'm in a new state so I don't know anyone. I just feel old and hopeless and like life has passed me by.  I'm just disappointed. I'm not sure that I'll ever find love and happiness.

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I hope things get better soon. Do you work anywhere yet? That's a start on how to meet people. I've met a lot of friends just from my kids playing with other kids from school, the neighborhood, and activities that they are involved in.

You will find happiness just don't look to other people to give it to you. Focus on you and your children. Everything will fall into it's place.
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« Reply #8 on: August 15, 2004, 03:12:00 AM »
Heroin works...






























But that opens another can of worms..
 Nah jk really but you know the higher grade opitaes will numb you emotionally like nothing else..saved me from suicide serveral times..then later was the cause of wanting to die.

What goes up....must come down.

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