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Offline Anonymous

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« on: July 31, 2002, 02:23:00 PM »
I forget the names but there were two ex-KIDS that got married subsequent to being reunited here on the bbs (Craig and Christy??).  Does anyone know how they are doing?
Curious.
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« Reply #1 on: July 31, 2002, 07:28:00 PM »
It didn't end up working out.  We called it off long before the wedding itself
Christy
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« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2002, 09:14:00 PM »
Sorry to hear about that, it sounded so cool.  Usually things that 'sound' so cool, don't turn out to be that way, in my experience anyway.  There is a Prince Charming for you somewhere, possibly without program baggage!
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« Reply #3 on: July 31, 2002, 10:20:00 PM »
Thanks for the vote of confidence!  
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« Reply #4 on: August 01, 2002, 02:56:00 PM »
Will you marry me???
Kidding, best wishes to you.
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« Reply #5 on: August 02, 2002, 12:06:00 AM »
Just wondering who you are.  Did I know you?  Thx for the uplifting words.  I am sure I will find what I am looking for one of these days!  Probably wise to stay away from those with a past like mine, I am on a search for "remarkably normal!"  I just hope to find an easy-going, healthy relationship!

Email me if I know you, Anon.
Take care yourself,
C
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« Reply #6 on: August 02, 2002, 12:08:00 AM »
Just wondering who you are.  Did I know you?  Thx for the uplifting words.  I am sure I will find what I am looking for one of these days!  Probably wise to stay away from those with a past like mine, I am on a search for "remarkably normal!"  I just hope to find an easy-going, healthy relationship!

Email me if I know you, Anon.
Take care yourself,
C
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« Reply #7 on: August 02, 2002, 09:26:00 AM »
I'm 'just someone' from thekidsbbs.com.  
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« Reply #8 on: August 02, 2002, 05:56:00 PM »
Christy, For someone who thinks she is better off with someone who was not in Kids, you were sure involved with enough ex-kids over the past couple of years.  There were quite a few relationships the way I remember it.
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« Reply #9 on: August 02, 2002, 09:27:00 PM »
Very true!  I have an felt an undeniable connection to that place and those I went thru it with. It was such a big part of my life and who I am in life since then.  My best friend in the world is Jenny Hope.  I still talk to Lulu and Britta all the time. I have always felt a deep closeness to both guys and girls from my time there and that connection is powerful. Of course, I have made many other great friendships and had other relationships along the way too.  But, somehow, they (the relationships romantically with other "KIDS") were never as healthy as I wish they could have been; which is unfortunate, b/c it would have made a great love story, you know?  "KIDS guys" aren't the problem, its just about finding the right match I think. Craig is a very nice person and yet we just didn't fit compatibly.  On a personnal note, I find myself, since KIDS, always looking for real depth in relatinships, and ex-kids seem to be on that same page so it is sometimes very attractive and comfortable to me.  I got a little burned the last few tries, (not Craig but the  guy before) so I am just a little protective.  Some people since KIDS turned out so very together - but it has been my experience (and I do not mean Craig) that some are pretty out there and still have a "I am bettere than the rest of them" Newton-esque side - even though they are out - which I can live without frankly!  I am just hoping for healthy - no matter waht past any future guy may have had.  But you are right, I have certainly dated my share of KIDS people - actually, just 2 in the last 2 years and none before that since I left.  Weird.  I think those days are behind me though and at some level it was a part of my dealling with some things.  YOu sounded kind of judgemental, did you mean it that way?
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« Reply #10 on: August 04, 2002, 04:15:00 AM »
You know, I rarely tune into this board, and have only posted once before - but tonight my wife is asleep and I am up sick and feverish and trying to get to sleep myself and find myself cruising the web in the middle of the night for something to do.  Why the hell you, Anon, are bothering this girl about her love life is beyond me.  Give her a break.  KIDS f-ed us all up!    Apparantly, Christie, who I never knew, as I was in EP, has tried to find love in some others who went thru KIDS,  I can see the appeal.  Similar pasts,  similar needs and expectations.  We all struggle with our demons since KIDS and to find love.  Lay off with your condescending comments.  The girl just had the strength to break off an engagement, She even had the humility to EXPLAIN it to you - and that must have been hard and taken guts.  I bless my wife and the Lord every day I found her and have 2 beautiful children who I cherish; I am a lucky man; but I understand some were not so lucky and struggle to find the depth, as Christie calls it, that we learned in KIDS.  Give her your support, not your judgement and critique.  C'mon man; we are on the same side!  Applaud those for trying, relate to their search - or shut the hell up if you have nothing nice to say (as my Grandmother taught me)
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« Reply #11 on: August 05, 2002, 07:04:00 AM »
I'm curious. Is it Christy J.? I was only in NJ for 9 months (nov. 88-July 89) and that is the only Christy that I remember. If I recall correctly she was on jr. staff and had black hair. Am I correct? If I am I wouldn't think you would have too much of a problem finding a "Mr. Right" you were by far one of the most attractive girls there. And no I'm not implying that looks = wonderful relationship, but it does widen the pool of candidates.
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« Reply #12 on: August 05, 2002, 12:20:00 PM »
For the record, I had nothing to do with any of the prior posts and the last one I made in this thread was the last one with my signature--I am not the anon poster.  
I'm a nice guy.
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« Reply #13 on: August 07, 2002, 02:36:00 PM »
CJ~ Are you back in NJ or are you still in CA? Was just wondering ?I have something up my sleeve, if your in NJ ! Kate Walsh {Bryan`s wife}
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« Reply #14 on: August 07, 2002, 05:47:00 PM »
email me Katie cjohn@mindspring.com
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