You know, I rarely tune into this board, and have only posted once before - but tonight my wife is asleep and I am up sick and feverish and trying to get to sleep myself and find myself cruising the web in the middle of the night for something to do. Why the hell you, Anon, are bothering this girl about her love life is beyond me. Give her a break. KIDS f-ed us all up! Apparantly, Christie, who I never knew, as I was in EP, has tried to find love in some others who went thru KIDS, I can see the appeal. Similar pasts, similar needs and expectations. We all struggle with our demons since KIDS and to find love. Lay off with your condescending comments. The girl just had the strength to break off an engagement, She even had the humility to EXPLAIN it to you - and that must have been hard and taken guts. I bless my wife and the Lord every day I found her and have 2 beautiful children who I cherish; I am a lucky man; but I understand some were not so lucky and struggle to find the depth, as Christie calls it, that we learned in KIDS. Give her your support, not your judgement and critique. C'mon man; we are on the same side! Applaud those for trying, relate to their search - or shut the hell up if you have nothing nice to say (as my Grandmother taught me)