the reason some people do not trust you is this;
many people stumble upon this "fager" website.they are alone many many years outcast by their communities and schools for being in the programs and make a google websearch and discover this stuff about the program.then they contact someone in person to find help,usually one of the chronic 7stepping posters.so when you have been so many years alone with nobody to understand what you experienced in the program,then you talk on the phone and meet in person the other people,and find this board with so many people THEN THESE NEW FOUND 'FRIENDS' USE AND BETRAY YOU then you realize this whole website is bullshit.i have made these contact with these people who run this website and i met with them in person so that i can participate in protests and such.these guys are just a bunch of shit head 7steppers even today and can not be trusted.they will use you and then expose your real name on this board just to be a smart ass.i warn ANYBODY against telephoning or meeting anybody in person who represents themselves as 'ANTI STRAIGHT ACTIVISTS',they are fakes.the only good 7stepper,or ex-7stepper is a dead one!