We just LOVE to judge, don't we? It helps us feel better about ourselves. We are sooo enlightened and superior, aren't we? We claim our victim role but then just LOVE to bash those who handled it "wrong". Tammy A was a bitch on wheels. I couldn't stomach her. And, let me tell you - I HAD to stomach her - I lived in that host home WAY too long. But, I betcha SHE would call herself a bitch on wheels herself - with pride. That is who she was (is?). She was real. A little on the evil side, but REAL. Who the f&^k CARES? I haven't been affected by that freak show for over a decade. I hope she is happy, haven't we all grown and changed since then? BECAUSE of THEN? I am anon b/c this site is filled with losers who get off on bashing, why subject myself to it? I don't give a damn what NYCappie or his cohorts think. I think "those people" live in glass houses and should shut the hell up. This site should be more supportive. Sad.