Wow, your reply seems to have been written with you having not read my post, or my link at all! Congratulations!
Am I saying a kid who is in need of help should not be helped? NO!
Let me reapeat that. NO. Thanks for listening.
Does a story of a kid from a type of place that is accused of indocrination and brainwashing being happy when she is brought back show she was not abused? No. Its actually pretty irrelevant, because while you might be correct, she could also just be succumbing to the brainwashing. But why would she need to be there to be happy? Its a treatment center. The point should be to get OUT, and be 'fixed' or 'healed' of whatever ailment she has as soon as possible and get on with her life, not stay there and join some kind of family. Making them NEED to be there smells like a cult.
Now, this right here.... "And just because there are some disgruntled kids and parents on this board. i want to know about the thousands of kids who are not complaining.
And even the ones i see on this board who say thier school sucked, but never saw abuse."
Most rapes go unreported. Does that mean you should not go after the ones that are? Or, there are LOTS of families out there, and most are good, we shouldn't go do anything against those accused of being bad, what about all the millions of kids who never complain? It doesn't make sense in that circumstance and it should not in a for-profit 'treatment' business, Either. They do not get special rules.
Abuse is abuse, ANYWHERE. You simply disregard the possibility of it existing. You just wave it away dismissively as them not liking a 'tough' or 'strict' program.
That, sir, is bullshit.
You saying you have no power complex or that you Do have a clear conscience and feel rewarded from doing it means nothing, no matter how you say it. And, I'm sure your reward is primarily financial. Whether you are simply blocking bad possibilites out or are somehow are omniscient and know the truth and we're all lied to, how you feel is the same. And it was never even about YOUR feelings anyway, its about serious problems with this INDUSTRY, this BUSINESS you make a buck off of that could very well be hurting CHILDREN. This is a serious thing and the LAST thing it needs is people like you slacking off or just being dismissive!
Anyway, you refuse to acknowledge the existance of abuse or the possiblity of it, and seem to IGNORE the whole point about making these businesses operate more transparently - so if abuse DOES happen they can communicate with the outside world, and prevent the businesses from cutting off child/parent TRUST and COMMUNICATION. These places ISOLATE the children from the LAW, REPRESENTATION, DOCTORS, their PARENTS, and from anything and anyone except the people operating the program. Their methods have been likened to brainwashing.
WHY do you IGNORE THAT? WHAT your answer? You ONLY have a clear conscience becuase you do not allow yourself to think that the bad stuff COULD happen, or DOES. Where is your skepticism? You totally ignore the possibility of anything happening except what they say and what you *WANT TO BELIEVE*.
Yeah, I was pretty bad about how I went about talking to you before, and I should not have done that. But surely you could understand how furious someone could be. Maybe you were simply indoctrinated into it and think emotional and psychological abuse, physical suffering, restraint, terror, and helplesness is 'good for them' and I am wasting my time. Or, maybe you can take a step back, think about what me, and THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE have to say, look at it critically and with skepticism, and wonder why people get so worked up at you!
You are in a position to do a lot of good. Not just make yourself feel good, pat yourself on the back, and get a payment for taking a kid to some place where few really know whats going on. If someone like you started getting skeptical it would be very good and do one of two things. 1. Exonerate those programs, and everyone who was abused IS a fluke or a lie, or 2. uncover what is going on and if it IS bad fix it.
Maybe you weren't abused, maybe you were and think its okay. But I have talked to *SO* many people who were, or whose kids were there, and they were not all lying to me, the tears in their eyes, and in my eyes for the past 6 months because of this issue are not just because I'm disgruntled, its becasue I know so many people are suffering beyond words and I can only do so much about it. Of COURSE I would be mad at YOU for taking them there and not giving it another thought, and then profitting from it. You're the last link in the chian before they're locked up, and put in a place where if they are abused they have NO WAY TO TELL ANYONE. If they get out and talk about it the parent will likely throw them back in the program. I do know a few who have convinced their parents, but part of it is PARENTAL indoctrination.
Here, I'll link to it. Promise me you will read ALL OF IT. Yeah its long, but its worth the read.
http://www.intrepidnetreporters.com/Tee ... eaking.htm That is something someone in your position HAS TO KNOW. If you just wave it off and disregard the possibility of it then you have no busines doing this. Find another way to make a buck if you don't care enough about them.
I'll also link to two news reports about it. If you just disregard the lot of it, and just believe what you want to, then I will not take back any insults. If you do then I will.
http://fornits.com/anonanon/video/wami.ram is one.
http://www.isaccorp.com/images/insideedition.mpg is the other. Yes they are video links but its worth looking at.
And no, do not even THINK about coming back with "ok so they are abused but if they were not in there they'd be dead or in jail". You can help people without abuse. You can teach without brainwashing. You can help someone improve themselves and their lives without breaking them down, locking them down, restraining them inflicting pain and angst until they submit to you.
If thats how you were 'turned around', torture and brainwashing, and thats why you now think its okay, then you ARE a horrible human being. Just remember, what goes around comes around. Everyone will get what they deserve in the end. And no, not just a payment for services rendered.