danny bennison I did not know you in elan ,thank fucking God . I never had a conversation with you ever in elan. I do not consider you a survivor under any situation ,just having been to elan` in my book is not the golden ticket to being a survivor of elan .
A little breakdown for you danny ,you never told me that you worked as an assistant director at that hell hole during our 4 phone calls . you lied to me by ommission simply put. . Then you lied and lied some more ,then you tried to hurt me by rubbing the stabbing incident in my face .especally after I had told you , danny bennison ,yes you that I still felt bad about that ,and your reply to me was , in that low volume high pressured voice (that Ben Parks is very familar with ,the technique used to feign caring and emotional concern)the voice you learned from kruglik. and you said to me in that voice "I know you do matt ,i know you still feel bad ,and then danny Bennison you proceeded to rub it in my face in it as you tried to take me back to my hell that was in elan after that incident . you really tried to cause me emotional harm with threats ,coercion, and abuse , and every other elan technique that you had learned from elan and still use to this day to abuse survivors .
All because I said "you never told me that you were an assistant director during your employement at elan and I know you were a liar. Plain and simple . And danny bennison you are a liar .
I have seen how you use your sock puppets to lie and lie more about me , And you lie at the drop of a hat , about things you have no clue.. You really have no clue who I am or who I was in elan . Or my story yet for some reason which I have yet to figure out you tried to shut me up about my speaking out about elan
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It's like this I no longer carry the guilt from that incident ,Sure it happened but my god I know if elan had been a decent place and had not been a sick fucked up hell hole .yes danny your precious elan was a fraudulent and gross neligent place that had idiots working there that were as incompentent as the day is long . Yes your precious elan danny bennison .
as I said danny bennison quit lying about me and slandering me ,unlike you I am a good person and I have made something of myself and yes I am a survivor from elan ,something that you are not as evidenced how you treat all survivors .
Danny bennison you are a sick ,distorted ,abusive lying twisted fruitcake of a psychotic lunatic and I have said quite lying about me. and seriously go to hell danny bennison . I am tird of your horseshit ,you are a sick stalker of me and you need to deal with your sick infatuation of me . I am tired of reading your lies about me in your gossip queen style of blabbering your nonsense.
I really do believe from you lies and unprovoked abuse and stalking from you of me that you may very well have done the shit that you have been alledged to have done . It is your bed you made it you deal with it it is not of my concern . though I do know with out a doubt that you are incapable of ever telling the truth .
go to hell danny bennison ,seriously go to hell.
OK this is good. So let me understand. It really makes a big difference when you were told Danny was a Ass. Director. Why is this so important Matt, because I am having a hard time believing at this point in your life (what are you 50+ yrs) that a young adult 18yrs could be seriously considered to be a Ass. Dir, @ a residential treatment program. That you would under other circumstances look at this as a credible argument. No, I don't think you would.
Matt all you do in these posts you write is vent the residual anger you still feel about Danny outing you. It doesn't make a difference if Wes Fager and Ginger knew, you knew Elan people did not know and you had no intention of telling them. So quit preaching to Danny about when you are supposed to tell people things.
The story Danny wrote concerning Richmond Virginia and AA holding a mens retreat was and still is a joke. Danny told Matt that if he didn't settle down that he would bring over 250 guys and they would drag him off to a meeting. Matt has decided to use this story and the contents to accuse Danny of threatening him. Guys why do you think Matt would do this, yep your right, to humiliate Danny. To accuse a ex-employee of Elan (even though this person was 17-19 yrs old) of abusing him. What Matt doesn't understand is Matt was already there when Danny got there. Yep Matt got there is 1974 and Danny got there in 1975. Danny visited Waterford where Matt was at in early 1976 and he knew many of the same people Matt knew.
Matt and Danny spoke on the phone often back in late 2008 and early 2009. Matt even went so far as to say it was OK that you were staff, Danny, because I was re-entry staff at Waterford. Matt also admitted to going out with other residents and /or employees and transporting kids back to Elan. OK so it was alright to say I was staff but because I did not say I was a Ass. Director @ 18 this is a big problem. MATT, Danny was 18 years old for crying out loud, WTF do you think at 18 made him qualified to be one. No you just think this is a bigger stick to beat him up with.
Just so we know Danny was Ass. Director for maybe 2 months, if that.
Matt Hoffman, it is high time you started acting like you are almost 52 years old, a married man with children. Why are you here screwing around with people who have no desire to grow up, take on responsibility or be anything more then a internet troll.
Like we said earlier, we have no beef with you. We would just assume you get over it and move on. You got as good as you gave, so stop it.
Matt, you and Danny are both survivors and you both hurt one another all this other bullshit happening around you two is bullshit. It has nothing to do with what started the fight between you two. Go back to that point and see it for what it was.
Damn Matt, stop being stubborn.
P.S. You keep saying you did not know Danny at Elan. Ok! I don't think Danny ever posted that he sat down with you at Elan and had a conversation with you. So really Matt, who gives a shit. Like knowing Danny would change your shitty behavior towards him, I don't think so.
danny ,danny ,danny you lying sadistic fuck . I most certainly did not have phone conversations with you until Feb of 2010. I did not know you existed until then and I had 4 phonecalls with you. I had no clue who you were until you posted your "staff manifesto " on facebook , you told me that you were only a delivery driver for joe ,you lied then and you lie now .
What pissed me off was that you danny bennison lied to me and had me convinced that all you were for elan and joe was joe's food delivery driver, and well thats how I came to know what you are a stone faced liar. I came to know you as an abuser of survivors much later in March of 2010 . And you have been a staker of mine ever since and you really neeed to deal with your sick infatuation of me danny I am tired of reading your lies about me on the internet ,like in your above post. It just shows me how sick and distorted you really are and other folks think you are dangerous , shit maybe you are, I just think you are one guilty lying sick fuck bully .
You were a paid employee of elan's.I was re-entry staff .We have gone over this before danny, my parents were STILL paying elan during this time which I ,myself had no choice in the matter of doing re-entry staff. They obviously felt that I was so whacked from what had happened to me ,my re-education at the hands of incompentent sadists ,(like you) that they joe and all felt that they could not let me out of their sight for my re-entry ,lol.not that I was angry or dangerous they just couldn't afford to have me to talk to people in the real world and talk to someone who cared about what I had just gone thru in my re-education at elan .lol. And thats a fact there danny boi.
Elan was paying you to WORK there. I had no choice you did .......but hey danny thats not why I think you are a sick fuck it is because you abuse survivors and still do abuse survivors . and you have tried your best to abuse me post elan thru your lying idiotic bullshit. and danny I am no drunk , but I am flattered to hear that you think I am coming from a dry drunk such as yourself ,lol. it is really funny , considering the source.Its also so funny how you post here that you worked there for 22 months pretty soon I imagine that eventually you never will have eveah have worked at elan in any capacity ,lol, and that appears to be happening as you lie now about your elan tenure.
It was never about you being the big bad assistant director ,never been about that so don't blow smoke up your own ass . It has everything to do with who you are now and how you treat survivors of all programs . And to me danny bennison you aint no survivor in any sense. I am tired of your lies and bullshit .
Hell Art is a survivor compared to you ,sorry Art Man I have more respect for Art W. as being a survivor than I do you danny bennison, because of how you treat survivors of all programs.
conme on danny be a man and "get honest " oh thats right that is something you are truly incapable of doing . To some one who knows the truth ,your lies are very telling and they tell as much as your tells tell us who your sock puppets are. of course they are you ,who else would be such an idiot to lie the way you do.
And danny that threat you issured to me about corralling me and then I might be brainwashed ,to me and how I percieved it was a threat to do me bodily harm . not take me to a fucking AA meeting as you lying put it in your above post . Hell you need to go to stinkin and thinkin and read your threat there or better yet it is all over fornits here ,your actually words ,the truth as to what you said to me . And danny don't ever try to control me or try to stiffle me or lean on me to "get me to settle down". You asshole, are not my assistant director and this is the real world now asshole .it aint elan anymore. You need to go refresh your self to what it was that you really said to me ,liar,in what I percieved as being a threat to me ,and thats what counts asshole, how I percieved it ya bully lying sick fuck.
go to hell danny bennison ,seriously go to hell.