Thanks Anon. I think you understand what the real issues are and what they have been for my fmaily. I hope that states will incoroporate with in their social services dept. child advocates who's only function will be to monitor lock and key facilities. I think something along these lines would benefit everyone.
By the way, my child being out of the country was the 1st red flag for me.
[ This Message was edited by: Carey on 2003-10-09 04:51 ]