This will probably be an unpopular opinion - but, to the parent "on a mission" I wanted to throw it out there.
I hear your anger and I can't actually imagine in your situation how you must feel about KIDS. I just still think of Tony as a victim. And, I did hear him testify at the recent trial and I really think if we look at it rationally, there is no way that in his role as school psych that he is a danger to children, being "alone with them" etc. From seeing him on the stand, I feel certain that while he will not renounce MN, that is not the method he uses in his job.
I just question possibly ruining a man's life, (career anyway) - when in my view it is STILL and always will be - just MN and RAM who deserve that consequense.
Christy J