Mom and Dad might not be so keen on helping out because, implicit in the fact that the child considers himself a survivor of an abusive program, the $10 is going to ISAC to advertise the fact that mom and dad basically paid somebody big bucks to kidnap their own kid and subject him to child abuse by proxy for an indefinite term.
Ordinary moms and dads have a tough time with that. We are all geniuses when it comes to matters of self-justification.