This sounds reminiscence of a time when I was staff in a treatment center and I was overwhelmed w/ all this guilt and shame. For the abuses that were going on. I was looking for some place to dump it ( un.be.known to me ).
About this time I started to realize that the very kids I was trying to help became intolerable to me. I was very impatience, judgemental and became a harden task master. HMMMMMMMMMMMMM.....aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh....a abuser.
Now, many years later I read you, I don't know if you are a student , a troll or maybe affilliated w/ a treatment center.
I don't care really.... it's just were talking about young lives here that adults are making appalling decisions for and we are not ready to "HEAR" somebody cocked up talking about how kids.. 13..14..15 or 16 who are being abused... "some fucking how deserve this"....WTF.....off my high horse now.....dude wake up or just piss off somewhere. This helps my recovery...maybe yours too?
We are not talking about what happened at home, this is a whole other topic, The conversation here is on treatment centers and how they pathologically lie to convince you, parents ( oh', maybe you are a parent), and whoever will listen....how they are going to fix Johnny and Sally. Yeah' they fixed them all right neutered and spaded.
I'm done.