When you get down to it we all know that he needs help and belongs there. We have already gotten past and debunked the argument that kids are just randomly being pick up and driven to programs.
It's as random as the parents want. Was he diagnosed with an illness by a doctor after which he voluntarily submitted to treatment? Was he convicted in a court of law by a jury of his peers of a crime? Was he entitled to a defense? An attorney? NO. He was pulled off the street under false pretenses and kidnapped. What the hell else do you want to call it. I refuse to use the "escort" euphemism. Pick up a dictionary and read it. Making up your own words to seem more legitimate is a poor defense.
We also know the parents have better things to spend their money on then escorts and specialty schools. The kid was out of control and abused his parents.
Says one side of the story, and not his friends, and if Brendan could speak
freely, I doubt he'd agree.
Let's put it this way. The program ended up convincing me that while I was on my own I was doing badly and was destined to failure (the program or death). Through the dogma of the almighty program I was forced to reinterpret my past -- and I swallowed it; hook, line, and sinker. Thought reform is a powerful thing. It wasn't until I talked to my parents years later who said by the standards of the world, I was doing fine.
The kid needs to be there period. The parents are the victims here.
Bullshit. The only extent the parents are victims is to degree they're scammed by the program. Even that is only financial damage. What is being done to this kid under false pretenses of therapy makes him the victim here.
Anyone who has ever been to DRA knows that if he breaks the rules or tries to run then he will be kicked out (sent home).
Bull. I would bet large amounts of money you threaten them with worse programs if they act enough to get kicked out. Common tactic at WWASP was threatening kids with out of country programs such as TB or High Impact.
But he is obviously getting the help he wants and needs because he is still there by his own choice. Brendon has spoken.
Under duress. Can he speak freely with the outside world without being monitored or without fear of punishment? Didn't think so. IMO, by now, he's figured out that he has to say whatever the program wants in order to succeed. Eventually, he'll probably believe it -- probably some time after the program too... but it
will wear off and when it does you will have hell to pay. I'll personally make sure of that.
Some people resist going into the water and if they are picked up and thrown in they dont all necessarily jump out and run home. Most enjoy the water once they are in and realize the benefit and stay.
Throwing them in without their consent is STILL wrong regardless of your pathetic rationalizations. Your ends justify the means bullshit makes me sick.
Just because you think a person might enjoy or benefit from something does not give you the right to force it on them.