Toughlove International

[wdtony]

More staff connections...

Terri Nissley, President and CEO of Pathway Family Center, is listed as Treasurer for Toughlove international:

http://www.whitepages.com/search/Replay ... findperson

Here is the Toughlove site (1 of many)

http://www.4troubledteens.com/toughlove.html

I believe it is sponsored by CRC Health Group.  Toughlove International was founded in 1979 by Phyllis and David York from Pennsylvania.  The website is also sponsored by Aspen Education Group (CRC Bought AEG out), still the same.

[Ursus]

There's a good thread on these people HERE; well worth reading IMO. In it, Ginger mentions that Toughlove, the book, "was the program Bible till Newton published Gone Way Down."

Also in that thread, Karass posted the following description of the Yorks and their book (source?):

Its authors, 45-year-old Phyllis York and her 53-year-old husband, David, were counselors by profession. But their own children -- whom they described as "rotten" -- taught them that psychological counseling "only prolonged the problems by looking for the causes in the family's behavior." A child's rotten behavior was exclusively the child's fault, they wrote, and the most appropriate response was banishment. The Yorks' crowning achievement of "tough love," as they tell it, was refusing to post bail for their teenage daughter when she was arrested for drug possession just before Christmas. When their other daughter "threatened" to post bond, Phyllis screamed at her, "I'll kill you! You will not make her bail!" And when an intern at the rehab center came to ask them to visit their troubled daughter, Phyllis slammed the door in her face.

Some children, the Yorks explained, are simply too horrible to continue nuturing. Among the two pages of banishable offenses the Yorks list are "living in filthy bedroom and saying it is their room and they can do what they want, leaving dirty dishes around and claiming that they did not do it, fighting with their siblings and saying that their brothers and sisters started it, fighting with their parents and saying that Mom or Dad was nagging them..." as well as wrecking the family car, shoplifting, and getting stoned.

"The common denominator is rotten behavior," the Yorks wrote. "Despite a wide range of geographical, social, and economic backgrounds, our young people today behave with stereotypical predictability. Like clones stamped out in some satanic laboratory, they share an underlying selfishness and similar ways of demonstrating it."

The trick is to band together with other parents -- "your support people" -- who are doing the same thing to their bad children. And most of all, stay away from doctors and therapists. "We do not support the use of counselors who 'psychologize' the problem," the Yorks wrote, "but we encourage the patronage of counselors who will cooperate with our TOUGHLOVE strategies."

[Anonymous]

If you don't want your teenage daughter around anymore, send her to me.

[Cyndeelouwho]

A program parent , with a background in book keeping and amway is not the person to be in charge of any childs life.

Especially when the motivation is money.

It is criminal to take money from grants and unknowing parents to line your own pocket, period.

To spend the money and then file bankruptcy should result in jail time.

Thanks again to all the hard work and determination of the select few who have persistantly used their own time and money to close down these gulags and brain washing facilities, one by one.

And for keeping us informed.

[psy]

Phyllis and David York from Pennsylvania

Them is some sick fucks.  Use search to find lots about them on this forum.

For what it's worth, I'm pretty sure there isn't a current connection to Aspen other than that they bought up the old domain names the Yorks were using.  There used to be information about the Yorks on some of those pages as well as some about their philosophy and so on.  Check internet archive for any links you have.