On 2003-09-08 23:09:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Shit! How did this topic turn into this. Can't we all just celebrate her coming out and congratulate her on her bravery?
John,
It's great to hear that as a man receiving a compliment from a gay man you would be flattered. Unfortunately, others seem to feel threatened by it. Glad to hear it. Who are you "blasting" anyway? What's with all the aggression?
If this is your coming out of sorts as "darque pervert", and that is the purpose of your post I would like to congratulate you as well, for your bravery, in letting us all know that you somehow relate to" animals," "dogs, cats, buffalo, and platypi," and for communicating your primary purpose on earth to everyone. However, I didn't feel your apology to women about objectifying them is very sincere so please don't bother.
NOTE: In general some people refrain from admitting "that they have sexual urges about someone else" or avoid publicly spewing their objectifications or perversions out of basic respect for women or others. Some people acknowledge the reality that most people just don't really care while others call it harassment.
I like the word "fuck" just fine. It's the juvenile referral to hiding the salami that's funny.
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Bah. Harrasment is one thing. Receiving unwanted sexual advances is one thing. But liking someone's breasts is another. Sure, in certain circumstances, stating such would be inappropriate.
And my hostilities stem from the ignorant, lazy American masses that overreact to every stinking little thing. Nothing's changed since Kids.
I remember arriving in New Jersey immediately after this new set of "food rules" had been implemented there. The same ones were set forth in El Paso before it closed as well, but at that point the group was smaller & tighter, so it wasn't a big deal.
You all in BC acted stupid about the whole thing, stemming from induced paranoia.
As I stated in the FIRST reply in this chain, gay, straight, black, white, green, plaid, drunk, sober, fat, skinny, tall, short, etc... NONE OF IT MATTERS.
We're all human beings that were violated by one sick fuck known as Miller Newton.
Sorry, but being ANYTHING doesn't get you any special treatment from me, as that would make you unequal.
And as far as who I am and what I do. Sure, I go by the nickname "Darque Pervert" online. It's been my online name since the mid-90s.
You want a definition? Here:
Darque is because I'm dark and brooding. I think twisted things. I laugh at the morbid, mostly mockingly so. And the 'que' at the end is to ad an aura of phony class to the name.
Pervert is because my tastes tend to be different than most peoples, i.e. perverse. Sexually, sure. But that's not the whole of it. IT's also in general living of my life where I see things with a strange and unusual bent, which some people find disturbing.
As long as women continue to get breast implants, liposuction, collagen & botox injections, then I'm going to objectify those women, period. Sorry, but one doesn't get elective cosmetic surgery for the sole purpose of aesthetic improvement to NOT be objectified. Couple that with miniskirts, navel piercings, half-shirts and whatever other 'sexy' form of attire is prevolant these days by women, and you've got some alluring creatures walking our streets. That's NOT a complaint, mind you, but a fact.
It's just like painting your house or putting new rims on your car. You're improving the looks so it can be noticed, plain and simple.
That is objectification in a nutshell.
