I think you are all trying hard to apply your anti-program bias towards aspects of life which are not compatible with this analogy. In doing so it makes you appear less than credible, or to be more blunt, kind of kooky.
Now I know about what goes on in programs, and I know what goes in AA meetings. The two are completely different. I'm not seeing restraints leading to suffocation happening in AA when someone chooses not to share, or go on a five mile hike. I haven't heard about stress positions in AA meetings, or anything that could be viewed as abusive in the realm of what goes on inside of unregulated programs.
In perpetuating this one-size-fits-all interpretation to all of life's problems it only harms the cause and continues to alienates any new participants waiting on the sidelines.
The goals of some here are lofty. I'd be happy with a cessation to the murders and forced abductions and incarcerations. I'll leave the kinda-program-like, but-not abusive stuff to you all.
I'm sorry but I have to go find a forum filled with more... rational thought. The conspiracies and paranoia emanating from Fornits recently do not fit with what I'm trying to do. I wish you all good luck in your ventures to enlighten the world on the dangers of AA, but let's try not to forget the pressing issue at hand while doing so.