you know one option you may want to sit down with your parents and consider is normal boarding school. (in addition to educating them) For whatever reason it sounds like you and your parents are having trouble living together.
This sounds like an excellent idea. Sometimes, a little distance is all it takes. Way back when, people used to pawn their kids off on a sympathetic relative or what have you... The kid got a fresh start in a different (and hopefully safe) environment, sometimes a different school system even, and things kinda worked themselves out over time. Sometimes that just isn't workable, and a (regular) boarding school might be a good alternative.
Here is a time where the general tenor of the accompanying Google ads comes in handy when you visit "boarding school review" type sites. If you see a lot of military boarding school, boot camp, or residential treatment facility advertisements when you click on the review of a particular place, chances are...it is
not a place you want to be at! These ads are generally
more indicative of what kind of place it is than the review itself.
Is emancipation an option for this kid. We might not be able to convince these parents since the parents are often brainwashed by the programs. I know there are youth advocates who can help with the emancipation process.
http://www.youthrights.net/index.php?ti ... pation_Law
Emancipation also sounds like a good idea, but I am not sure how long that will take. One thing they
will look for is whether the kid has a solid plan in place as to where they are going to live, go to school, etc. etc. The plan doesn't have to be perfect; they can help with ironing out the details and feasibility of it all, but they want to see some thoughts along those lines. A kid who is primarily looking
forward, proactively, rather than
backward, reactively (though, of course those circumstances factor in), ...stands a better chance.
All in all, I think your best bet is to work on all fronts that you can, rather than just one, given that the situation is dire and you need a solution ASAP.