Take the myspace games back to teenage land. Let's try to raise the Fornits bar and keep to stuff worth reading.
Hell, I know Finding fornits, digging around and taking time to respond to posts about grieving doesn't count as full on research.
But, maybe I should say what makes you take the time to bother to reply about it?
You do have a point. From 1 perspective, Suicide is a selfish way out. Unfortunately, when you are very close with those that go that way it blows you out of the water. You lose that original perspective. You don't see the sunset from the beach you see it from the middle of the Sahara.
Suicide isn't selfish. It blows my mind to hear that crap. Why should the person in pain be thinking about YOU, or ANYONE? Selfishness goes both ways. Perhaps the people around her were selfishly hurting her, or selfishly not helping her.
It disgusts me that anyone knows a person in such a state of suffering that they take their own lives, hurting themselves instead of the ones that hurt them, and thinks about this once living being "didn’t do enough for me.â€
