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« Reply #30 on: December 26, 2007, 09:49:48 PM »
Hell, I know Finding fornits, digging around and taking time to respond to posts about grieving doesn't count as full on research.  

But, maybe I should say what makes you take the time to bother to reply about it?

You do have a point. From 1 perspective, Suicide is a selfish way out. Unfortunately, when you are very close with those that go that way it blows you out of the water. You lose that original perspective. You don't see the sunset from the beach you see it from the middle of the Sahara.
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« Reply #31 on: December 26, 2007, 11:21:50 PM »
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Hell, I know Finding fornits, digging around and taking time to respond to posts about grieving doesn't count as full on research.  

But, maybe I should say what makes you take the time to bother to reply about it?

You do have a point. From 1 perspective, Suicide is a selfish way out. Unfortunately, when you are very close with those that go that way it blows you out of the water. You lose that original perspective. You don't see the sunset from the beach you see it from the middle of the Sahara.[/quote

You don't have to dig if you just click the little icon to the last forum you posted in.  Works on any PHP board - give it a try.

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« Reply #32 on: December 27, 2007, 01:59:25 AM »
I've been on a broken sundial for 4 years and 3 months.
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« Reply #33 on: December 27, 2007, 04:53:04 AM »
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Hell, I know Finding fornits, digging around and taking time to respond to posts about grieving doesn't count as full on research.  

But, maybe I should say what makes you take the time to bother to reply about it?

You do have a point. From 1 perspective, Suicide is a selfish way out. Unfortunately, when you are very close with those that go that way it blows you out of the water. You lose that original perspective. You don't see the sunset from the beach you see it from the middle of the Sahara.


Suicide isn't selfish. It blows my mind to hear that crap. Why should the person in pain be thinking about YOU, or ANYONE? Selfishness goes both ways. Perhaps the people around her were selfishly hurting her, or selfishly not helping her.

It disgusts me that anyone knows a person in such a state of suffering that they take their own lives, hurting themselves instead of the ones that hurt them, and thinks about this once living being "didn’t do enough for me.â€
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« Reply #34 on: December 27, 2007, 08:30:55 AM »
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Suicide isn't selfish. It blows my mind to hear that crap. Why should the person in pain be thinking about YOU, or ANYONE? Selfishness goes both ways. Perhaps the people around her were selfishly hurting her, or selfishly not helping her.

It disgusts me that anyone knows a person in such a state of suffering that they take their own lives, hurting themselves instead of the ones that hurt them, and thinks about this once living being "didn’t do enough for me.â€
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« Reply #35 on: December 27, 2007, 10:12:08 AM »
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Suicide isn't selfish. It blows my mind to hear that crap. Why should the person in pain be thinking about YOU, or ANYONE? Selfishness goes both ways. Perhaps the people around her were selfishly hurting her, or selfishly not helping her.

It disgusts me that anyone knows a person in such a state of suffering that they take their own lives, hurting themselves instead of the ones that hurt them, and thinks about this once living being "didn’t do enough for me.â€
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« Reply #36 on: December 27, 2007, 12:57:28 PM »
Cat fights belong on another thread. This thread is about grief.

Start another thread about being indifferent to suicide.
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« Reply #37 on: December 27, 2007, 01:29:56 PM »
You know, for someone who calls people "dumb" and "twit", you are certainly lacking in the logic and reading comprehension department.

My first observation was that anyone who chooses to sit and grieve does it all by themselves because the dead person is totally unaware of the grief.

If *you* want to turn into dramaville, then have at it.
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« Reply #38 on: December 27, 2007, 03:42:17 PM »
I won't be shedding any tears when Niles expires.
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« Reply #39 on: December 27, 2007, 07:23:30 PM »
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I won't be shedding any tears when Niles expires.


Good. I'd rather not make people feel bad when I do.

But tell me, how much help have you done for others in your time? What have I done?

Not to toot my own horn or be arrogant but... honestly.
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« Reply #40 on: December 27, 2007, 07:27:40 PM »
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I won't be shedding any tears when Niles expires.

Good. I'd rather not make people feel bad when I do.

But tell me, how much help have you done for others in your time? What have I done?

Not to toot my own horn or be arrogant but... honestly.


What have you done?
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« Reply #41 on: December 27, 2007, 08:40:51 PM »
Google it.
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« Reply #42 on: December 27, 2007, 08:48:30 PM »
I'm not really coming up with anything I'd call productive. So have you done anything useful?
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« Reply #43 on: December 27, 2007, 08:57:09 PM »
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« Reply #44 on: December 28, 2007, 06:54:11 PM »
He is in an illicit affair with a poor, defenseless 15 year old! She can barely spell her own name, and he's bringing her into orgies, sexual experimentation and sodomy! Nihilathic is a prime example of why fags and dykes should be burned off the face of the earth, as his practices of sodomy with this girl are a clear indication of his homosexual tendencies! If you see Nihi "Chris" Lanthic, you should shout bible verses at him and picket his house!

Stop Nihilathic at all costs before this evil sodomite rapes and corrupts YOUR precious daughter!

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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."