My point, were you not so damned defensive....
...is that we're lacking common sense in this day and age. We don't need a huge study with PhD's and millions of dollars to realize if someone is in pain they're not going to be very pleasant to deal with, and that in neglecting our children and then punishing them for acting out we're only treating the symptoms of the problem, being ourselves.
I am not having fun at their expense... if its at anyone's expense its that of the quack fucks who let both of them die.
You're new here. I'm not. Look at my post count. I've been here since 03. I'm only 22 and Ive done more than I could tell you without spending a lot of time to put an end to this... you only came here after your child died when the system took you for a ride and he paid with his life.
Keep that in mind.
I'm here for those dead kids, the living but abused kids, and I'm here to keep anyone else from dying, and anyone else from being abused, not to make fun of dead children. I suggest you learn to read sarcasm and read into what I'm getting at before snapping, and for that matter registering an account so you can edit your mistakes!
At any rate, you should cool off. I'm the last person who would make fun of a dead child, especially one who died in such a horrible way.