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Offline Anonymous

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« on: October 13, 2007, 09:08:02 PM »
A friend recommended this to me when I was looking for a program for my son about 2 months ago and was horrified to read about all the abuse going on in these programs.  This friend once had a child in a program and claims this program (total transformation) is much safer and more effective.  Personally, I think it looks like one of those coaching services I've also stumbled upon and am skeptical.  Has anyone heard of this company and it's founder James Lehman or used it's materials?  We ended up in family counseling with a therapist who has done amazing things with our son and us, as a family.  I can not believe how many times I was told by other parents and referral agents that residential treatment was the "answer" and to not even bother with therapy because it was a waste of time and money.  Maybe we got lucky, I don't know, but I thank God I didn't follow the advice of the educational consultant or an online referral company, both of whom recommended programs that would have cost us a small fortune and quite possibly, ended up being abusive.  I urge parents not to give up on therapy for their child and their family, as a whole.
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« Reply #1 on: October 13, 2007, 09:35:14 PM »
TT, isn't that the guy with all of those radio commercials? Glad you got help for your son and avoided the sharks. By the way can you share what programs you were referred too and who referred them?
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« Reply #2 on: October 13, 2007, 10:17:23 PM »
I posted a thread about this program on one of these forums not too long ago... I'm pretty sure it was this forum, but it didn't turn up when I did a search on this forum (or on any forum, for that matter)...so who knows...anyway..
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« Reply #3 on: October 13, 2007, 10:52:09 PM »
It is that radio quack..
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i]Do something real, however, small. And don\'t-- don\'t diss the political things, but understand their limitations - Grace Lee Boggs[/i]
I do see the present and the future of our children as very dark. But I trust the people\'s capacity for reflection, rage, and rebellion - Oscar Olivera

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« Reply #4 on: October 13, 2007, 11:36:51 PM »
I hear that on the radio when I listen to boortz/limbaugh/hannity on the right wing talk radio station here in hicktown, Florida troll black listeners on the radio for not reciting the proper meaning of "racism"  :rofl:

Sometimes I wonder if its a prank. Seriously, who can take that shit as something that isn't a fucking joke?

"I LEARN MAGIC WORDS AND I FIX MY KID LIKE AN APPLIANCE! IM NOT A BAD PARENT!"

The guys accent totally fucking makes it the best.
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« Reply #5 on: October 14, 2007, 05:35:08 AM »
Quote from: ""Guest""
A friend recommended this to me when I was looking for a program for my son about 2 months ago and was horrified to read about all the abuse going on in these programs.  This friend once had a child in a program and claims this program (total transformation) is much safer and more effective.  Personally, I think it looks like one of those coaching services I've also stumbled upon and am skeptical.  Has anyone heard of this company and it's founder James Lehman or used it's materials?  We ended up in family counseling with a therapist who has done amazing things with our son and us, as a family.  I can not believe how many times I was told by other parents and referral agents that residential treatment was the "answer" and to not even bother with therapy because it was a waste of time and money.  Maybe we got lucky, I don't know, but I thank God I didn't follow the advice of the educational consultant or an online referral company, both of whom recommended programs that would have cost us a small fortune and quite possibly, ended up being abusive.  I urge parents not to give up on therapy for their child and their family, as a whole.


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« Reply #6 on: October 14, 2007, 06:02:20 PM »
Jim Lehman used to be a Director at Elan when I attended 81-82.

For three decades James Lehman has worked with troubled teens, younger children with behavior problems, families and professionals who live with, educate, treat and assist in managing them. In public schools, residential treatment centers, private schools, and numerous outpatient and inpatient settings, James has developed an approach to managing children and adolescents which challenges them to learn to solve social problems without hiding behind a facade of disrespectful, obnoxious, or abusive behavior.

James Lehman brings a wealth of personal experience to the arena of child and adolescent therapy, and has good reason to focus on behavioral management, having experienced severe behavioral problems himself as a child and adolescent. Born in 1946, he was abandoned at age 2 by parents unable to take care of him. He was found by Mr. Teddy Lehman, who, with his wife Marguerite, went on to adopt him. James began to exhibit oppositional and defiant behavior at home and in the classroom. There was no such thing as special education then, and as he grew older these behaviors became more severe. Eventually he quit school, left home, lived on the streets in New York City, and drifted into a life of substance abuse and crime, which led to numerous prison sentences. After more than 6 years in various jails and prisons, James was given the opportunity to participate in an accountability focused treatment program.



James Lehman, MSW
Creator of The Total Transformation Program
James Lehman graduated from that treatment program and participated in a period of training to become a staff coordinator – and his career as a counselor, therapist and teacher began. James attended Fordham University for 2 years, moved to New England, and obtained a Bachelor's Degree in Social Work, graduating Summa Cum Laude. As he continued working with children, families and professionals, James was able to attend Boston University and, in 1989, graduated with a Master's Degree in Social Work.

While working at a comprehensive residential treatment center, James began private practice, providing treatment, consultation and training to families, public schools and state agencies. The focus of that work was to provide parents, teachers and case managers with the tools they needed to successfully challenge difficult children to develop the problem solving and self management skills they needed to be successful without relying on disrespectful, obnoxious or abusive behavior.

Today, James Lehman continues his private practice, providing training and consultation to families and children with behavior problems, as well as to public schools, treatment centers and state agencies. He lives in Northern New England with his wife Janet, who is also a Clinical Social Worker, and has an adult son, Jeremy, living in New York City.
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