///BuzzKill - Don't worry you won't kill the buzz in this party - hope you stop by! ///
Oh fear not - I wouldn't dream of trying!

To kill the buzz, that is.
I would love to come. There is also a conference in June, in Philly, I want to attend tho - I don't see how I could do both. But who knows - maybe it will work out.
The idea of a meet and greet is a good one. I once belonged to an internet group that met once a year for a sort of conference. It was intended to be educational, with speakers either from the group or someone with expertise in our common concern - but it was mostly a big party. The first time I went I was nervous as a cat, but that soon passed and I had a great time.
Have you thought about inviting those who have written on the subject? (Alexia Parks/ Maia Szalavitz / Julia Scheers) Or a few of the more active activist? Ginger comes to mind. The Earnshaws. Barb Stamps maybe.
Maybe someone with expertise in cult groups and coercive persuasion? A psychologist maybe, with an interest in the dangers found in the kind of Synanon based treatment, these programs all use to one degree of another. Maybe the people at the International Cultic Studies Association could help with that.
Could be any or all of these folks would just not have the time to get away - never mind the cash - but its an idea to think about.